even wen they sey its the guy that should call,well before i find someone who likes me more cant i juse keep on calling <(i really want him to like me beack also)
2006-07-08 08:17:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Im going to tell you some thing comming from a guy. Although the guy may like you and like the attention your pouring on him, you make easy. People like to be persued. It does help break down uncertanity, on wether or not the person likes you. Is the guy calling you back though? If he is and sounds happy to hear from you good, keep up the good work. Ask him if he likes you calling him every day if he says not every day , slim it down to one a week this gives him room to call you.dont abuse the privalage of having his number . Dont wear it out so to say.If hes not calling you back, maybe he is nervouse. Maybe him not calling you back could mean one of two things. One although he may like you he really isnt ready for a strong, fast, call me every day relationship, The last thing you want to do is chase him away, by him thinking your a stalker.Peolple need space. We like attention, but not chased all the time. He knows you like him, let him come to you. You have done your part in calling him, now let him come to you. If he doesnt, Its his way of saying im not interested right now. Or two You know by calling him thats not going to make him like you any better.So stop it with the calling.
your only making an *** of yourself, and trust me, he is probably telling every one how this girl is crazy about him, and all he wants to do is get away from her . You dont want that, but thats how it looks, so stop, play hard to get.I love it when a girl gives me a little to work with and then lets me do the work. Being chased although its flattering, is annoying. I dont want to talk to anyone every day. If you dont know i like you after the second date, ill keep trying to find differnt ways to show it.But obbessive stalking, calling me all th time only makes the girl look desperate.
2006-07-08 08:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
u can tell ure excited cause ure spelling is WAY off! but listen no matter what call him once and ask him to hang out if he says no give him ure number and tell him if he ever wants to get together to call u. DO NOT keep calling him i KNOW its hard but i have definitely realized that EVERY guy doesnt like someone up his *ss they like to think u have a life of ure own no matter what. if ure too persistent it will make him think ud be like that all the time and it will scare him off. so its ok to make the 1st move BUT thats it, put the ball in his court and leave it there if he doesnt respond remember its for a reason..even if it sucks do not keep tryin!! GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2006-07-08 15:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun,
there;s not much you can do.
Find out if you guys are interested in the same stuff, I guess. And then bring that kind of stuff up when you talk to him. But don't be fake. A lot of guys get turned off like that.
And if you call him first, don't call like, every day. Makes you seem desperate.
2006-07-08 15:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling a guy is ok but u cant really be sure of his interest in you if your the one calling right? And remember you cant make someone like you...so what u need to do is be friends with him for a while and maybe he'll develop an interest in you...but if not, he's not worth it and u need to find someone who appreciates you!!
2006-07-08 15:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by addicted2music28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CALL HIM!
Ask yourself ... why are you so interested in someone that doesn't like you. You deserve better than that! Fine other things that interest you: hobbies, sports, art, etc. If you are busy doing other fun things, you won't be so obsessed with guys AND someone else just might find you interesting!
2006-07-08 15:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by simplyshapely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be mature about it hon, if you are too scared to let him know your feelings, how can you begin to handle a real relationship. I think you should work on yourself before trying to bring someone into your life. You are not ready for what comes next if you can't handle how to get it (if you know what I mean)
2006-07-08 15:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by tedajo3901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really cant do anything about the fact that he doesnt like you back. dont change the way you are just to make him like you. AND dont call him 24/7. It makes you sound like a stalker.
2006-07-08 15:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by mynameiskatie<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be aloof, don't always call him. Make him interested in why you are not calling, so then he will want to call you! You have to play hard to get in the beginning
2006-07-08 15:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Janice B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like stalking. Call him once or twice and see if he sounds interested. If he is, he will call you back. If not, then move on.
2006-07-08 15:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is keep trying. what's to lose if he doesn't like you back...then he's not worth it. you've got everything to win, so keep calling him and talk to him, be a good friend and show that you like him. if he doesn't like you back, like i said, then he's not worth it and you have better people to love.
2006-07-08 15:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋