i am moving out soonbut when i move out i want my boyfreind to move in with me however my mom does not really like my boyfreind becuase he is not russian. i have been dating my boyfreind for a year and a half and she has known the whole time but not that in moving out she is acting completly different as though she hates him. i dont know how to tell her so she would not tell me to chose between my boyfreind or my family please help me.
2006-07-08 08:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by cwazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her she has to accept him because u are going to be with him if she does or dont
2006-07-08 08:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does you Mom not like you boyfriend? I would find out why and if it is something serious or if she just doesn't like him because he is taking her little girl away from her. When you do move out make sure you don't move really far away and make sure you stay in contact with her and tell her that you will and that you love her dearly but that you also love him...Also you should know that an interracial marriage is much harder...it is just different cultures.
I personally would not move in with a boyfriend. I moved out of my parents home and lived with some freinds and then when I got married to my Boyfriend we moved in together...
2006-07-08 15:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by EmmaGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are going to have to choose anyway and will tell your mother you are moving out, just try and be as calm and polite as possible as your mother beats your boyfriend within an inch of his life before your very eyes. Do not let you boyfriend and your mother be in the kitchen together under any circumstances.
2006-07-08 16:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by rightonrighton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you respect her decision, but you are becoming an adult and that if she has concerns about him, ask her to explain what the concerns are. Also tell her that if this is a mistake and you don't make it, how will you learn how to handle it when you want some one else to move in with you?!
2006-07-08 15:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by geeky_skulleton18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Mom, my bf is moving in with me." It's not that hard, you have free will to do whatever you want, there is no way she can physically stop you. If you love him and your mother, you'll tell them the truth.
2006-07-08 15:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Everything 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell her that your going to have him move in with you. Your going to give it a try and if it doesn't work out than he can have his own place. Seriously just be forward about it.
2006-07-08 15:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Hrscrzy4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your boyfriend and you want to move with him, do it it's your life you can do everything you with whit it, an tell your mom your not a kid anymore. And the love don't have limits
2006-07-08 15:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by l_ich_bin_der_reiter_l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE heed your mom's concern. And DEFINITELY not live together with your boyfriend just yet. From you prior question, your relationship doesnt sound all that stable. And moving in together will NOT solve anything.
2006-07-08 15:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing it never changes good luck stay strong
2006-07-08 16:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by sexy mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you big enough to make your own decision !
2006-07-08 15:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋