one of my BEST friends is bi...it dosent really bother me but when i have sleepovers with her and my other friends too they all want to stay away from her because she is bi. Why do they do that and is there ANYTHING i can do about that??
2006-07-08 07:52:22 · 4 answers · asked by sweetblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so is 1 of my freinds and at first alot of my friend were a bit wierd about it but it all ended up fine after a while when they got used to it hope it helps :)
2006-07-08 22:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kind of a tough issue. i'm sure your other friends are afraid that the girl whose bi might start falling for them. you should talk to your other friends about it, and if it really becomes a problem (like if it starts to really hurt your bi friend's feelings) you should tell them that if they have an issue with her, maybe they shouldnt come to the sleepovers. keep inviting them (you dont want to hurt that friendship) but you dont want to end up hurting the other girl either.
2006-07-08 14:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by krush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being bi, but really, why are people thinking your friends are wrong? Would you have sleep-overs with boys? No, for the same reason. Something physical starts stirring up in the dark, when people are relaxed and half naked, and when it is not reciprocated, it is not comfortable. She should know that and accept the consequences of being who she is.
2006-07-08 15:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your other friends. ask them what there issue is. If it's ignorance help them learn, if it's stupidity, there's no cure for that. If they can't handle the situtation keep the situations separate.
2006-07-08 15:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Christian D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋