At the age of 14 is it OK to be pregnant and not be called a hoe?

Answer 1

Umm, you shouldn't be having sex at 14 so, no.

Answer 2

Being pregnant at the age of 14 is not something I would call a person a hoe for. If you have had numerous sex partners and always willing to have sex with anyone, then you would be a hoe. I don't think it okay to be pregnant at 14, but hopefully you are getting the help you need to make the best decisions for the baby and for you.

Answer 3

First of all, the slang expression is "ho", not hoe, and pregnant or
not, no 14 year old young lady should ever be called that. It is
a little young to be pregnant though, but that does not make you a ho. The people that call you that are the real ho's.
Is it OK to be pregnant at 14? Little too late to ask that question now. You're just a child still, having a child. You've got
some tough times ahead, get all the help you can. Start now,
before your child is born, so it will be born right, so you will be
a good mother. Forget all this "ho" stuff- that's for Santa Claus
and gangbangers.

Answer 4

Well, it's ok if you want to spend the rest of your life parenting because you never stop being a parent even when your kids grow up. It's ok if you like getting up every 2 hours to take care of a newborn. It's ok if you don't mind dragging a puking, whining child with a fever to the ER at 3:00 am after they've thrown up on you for the 4th time. It's ok it if you have money to buy diapers, clothes etc and things your child may need for the next 18 years. It's ok if you will be able to look back on your life in 30 years and live happily with knowing that you gave up the best years of your teenage life by getting tied down with a child. IT'S NOT OK TO PUT AN INNOCENT CHILD THROUGH ANY OF THIS IF YOU HAVE THE CHOICE TO CHOOSE ABSTINENCE.

Answer 5

Is it OK to be pregnant? OK has nothing to do with it if you are pregnant. Now you just have to live with it and do the right thing by your baby. You might be a little young to raise it. If I were you I would arrange for an open adoption. You'd make some couple deliriously happy and still be able to know how that child is doing as she grows up. We have an open adoption and it works beautifully. I can't imagine this world without our son in it and his birthmom is tickled that she sees him occasionally and knows him.
Is it OK to be called a hoe? No. Those people are cruel idiots. Stay away from them.

Answer 6

I havent been called a hoe im13 and I have 2 kids a 1 1/2 year old daughter and im pregnant now

Answer 7

No. If you're 14 and pregnant, you're a hoe. Period.

If you're not old enough to drive a car, what in the world makes you think you're old enough to have a child?

Girls are NOT mature at 14. If girls were getting more mature younger ages, they wouldn't be irresponsible enough to get pregnant so young. I have a 15-year-old cousin, and the last think I think about her is "she should have a kid." I'm almost 20 and I'm not mature enough to be a parent.

I hate to sound like and old man, but, seriously, the kids these days! I wish that people would just stop having children, because they're screwing it up so badly. I shudder to think what it's going to be like in 20 years.

Answer 8

Others calling you a hoe is their own opinion and outlook on your situation. There is no permanent status as a "hoe" for an individual. If they do call you a hoe, who cares, it's their simple way to try to insult you. It depends on what state or country you live in, but in Canada, they recently changed the laws that you have to be at least 16 to consent to sex, so if you were in Canada, that would've considered rape. And please have a think about what it would be like to keep the baby.

Answer 9

Well if you ask me it's not fair to call anyone a "hoe" before knowing their situation...i mean we never know how the 14 or older girl for that matter became pregnant. So i'd just think twice before judging someone.
Take care.

Answer 10

Things happen. But unless you were raped I guess you have learned the consequences of having sex at such a young age. And no, it's never ok to call another woman a hoe just because she's young and pregnant.

Answer 11

Well it's not really okay to be pregnant at 14. You're still a child and raising one is difficult! Also being pregnant so young will stunt your growth, whatever height you are now you'll stay whereas without being pregnant you might have grown more. If you already are pregnant, best of luck And no child should be called nasty names no matter what. Everyone makes mistakes.