my friend is always thinking about what it would be like to have sex it's really weird. she is 12 and hasn't had done it yet neither have i but thats is not part of the question.is it normal for her to think about it or is it just wrong?
2006-07-08 07:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm 13 and she is 12
2006-07-08 07:44:52 · update #1
it's normal...i started thinkg about it when i was like 8...but dont let her have sex! 12 is way too young....
2006-07-08 07:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for young people to think about it, but please tell her do not go out and do it just to know what it is like. Tell her she is normal but also tell her to wait. I know you hear it all the time but when it is with someone you love and someone who loves you it is a beautiful thing. Trust me the longer you wait the better. Especially when it is with someone you really love. Thinking about it is okay as long as you don't act on it. Especially when you are 12.
2006-07-08 07:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about it is fine.......but at her age, she shouldn't think about trying it out.
Tell her to remain responsible and wait until she is atleast 18 and in a promising relationship (such as engaged or even wait until marriage). Sounds old-fashioned, but it will save a lot of trouble, get rid of a lot of risks (pregnancy, stds, etc.), and protect her reputation.
2006-07-08 07:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at her age itis differently wrong she has her whole life ahead of her there plenty of time for that she should not be Ina hurry to have sex with any one especially at the age of 12 they is total inescapable
2006-07-08 07:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe u should just sit down and talk it out with her!
Then, if she still doesn't care, make up your mind if u still want to be friends with someone like that?!
2006-07-08 07:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by â? Lindseeâ?¢ [BreakDown]â?¥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personaly im 12 and i think it is just sick when she ask's what it's like just change the subject
2006-07-08 12:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by namegoeshere. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to think about it, or so i've been told. Just don't do it your a bit young and your probably not ready for it.
2006-07-08 07:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definently wrong, but the way media advertises it so much it's not not normal... but I would definently tell her she is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to young to even think around that subject!!
2006-07-08 07:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its normal. i mean who doesnt think about it?? just tell her not to ruin her life right at the bat. wait a little longer.
2006-07-08 07:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by irokusuk123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal. she just curious like the song by the old 3lw.
2006-07-08 07:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋