2006-07-08 07:32:51 · 24 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. Do they have children together? If so, all the more reason to be friends. A healthy friendship between you two would be an awesome environment for the kids. I think they would feel much more secure.
2006-07-08 07:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would, however, talk to your fiance and see how he feels about the situation. My husband has an ex-wife and although I have NO DESIRE to be friends with her I don't think my husband would appreciate it if I did. So, I would say it all depends on how your fiance and his ex ended things.
2006-07-08 14:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were friends with her before your fiance and she were together than no its not crazy. But if you only met her through your fiance and if things ended badly between them than I would have to say this might cause problems. I would talk to your fiance and see how he feels about the situation. If you can't talk to him about it than its obviously not good. If he would prefer you not to be friends with his ex wife, I would honor his wishes. Being friends with her might hurt your relationship with your fiance. Like I said all ready, the best thing to do would be to talk with your fiance.
2006-07-08 14:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL. I was divorced 20+ years ago and both my ex and I were remarried to others within a week of each other. After a little bit of time went by, his wife and I became friends. We'd talk on the phone....I even took my son down to visit them once and he made friends with their son who was close in age. Not only is it OK, it is a healthy realtionship.
2006-07-08 14:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I was friends with my boyfriends ex wife until she became really rotten for no reason to me. I was friends with my ex husbands girlfriend until she started talking behind my back with everyone I knew.
It is possible but it won't last. Usually there is something that gets in the way of your friendship.
2006-07-08 14:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you wouldof known her before, I might see it a little bit. But still I couldn't trust my fiance to not fall in love with her agian! But meeting her and hang out would just be a little weird! But on the other hand, why did he fall in love with you. Maybe you & his ex-wife has a lot in common. So if it is ok with your fiance and you can trust him, that just might work out!
2006-07-08 14:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lorla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I had (she has passed) a friend who was great friends with her husbands ex-wife. They referred to each other fondly as their wife-in-law. This was very healthy for the son they shared. He loves (loved) them both so VERY much. It was beautiful.
2006-07-08 14:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, if your fiance is still friends with her. But if they are on bad terms, then being friends with her may get complicated.
2006-07-08 14:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes only if it upsets your fiances.P>S> if it does upset your fiances,perhaps he got something to hide,Be very careful.
2006-07-08 14:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by RASTAPRINCESS231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's happened before. just dont let her interfere. or dont let yourself interfere with their past, and make sure your fiance is comfortable. maybe he had a good reason for breaking up with her, visa versa
2006-07-08 14:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋