I had a relationship with this man. He's my first love and I haven't fell with someone else ever since. I broke up with him because I know many people's lives will be ruined if we continue our relationship. Also, I felt that he's in love more to his wife than to me. I'm trying my best to get over him but I really can't because we used to see each other at the office. If only I can give up my job now...But I can't because I badly needed it now. Is it possible to get over a man whom I still love so much even I used to see him and talk to him almost everyday?
2006-07-08 07:26:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you are truely in love with him, you can never forget him. however, he was your FIRST love. enjoy your own life. he was cheating on his wife and using you to do it. imagine yourself in his wife's place. you would have been the one home with the kids while he was out having fun. you wouldn't want that would you?give new love a chance. someone will come along, make you happy, and you'll catch yourself wondering what it was you saw in this first "loser".
2006-07-08 07:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by smommeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know from a married woman's point of view you're dealing with very dangerous waters. Loose that man and let him go. Are you sure your not just in love with him sexually, sometimes that's a hard thing to separate from love being that women are so emotional. A man is always going to chose his wife and children and when he doesn't the relationship with the lover doesn't go right because what comes around goes around. Find a man that is your own, and find yourself while you're at it. I'm not saying you don't know who you are, I'm sure you do however if you truly loved yourself you would let that go and move on to bigger and better things Trust me!
2006-07-08 07:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Saude! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never had a relationhip with him in the first place. Try to find another job away from him, cause if you stay in the same office as him, your feelings will get even deeper.
FYI, if you do date another guy, dont tell him that you dated a married man cause he will leave you.
2006-07-08 07:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very hard to forget.
2016-05-30 08:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by sabrina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible ...You cannot
2006-07-08 07:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Petar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋