Ok, I've used this site a bit and I always let people know I'm a stripper. I work in two clubs in the Baltimore/DC area. At one of the clubs, I know of two of the dancers (I'm not one of them) who do regurally take sex for money (this is NOT allowed by the club, but they do it anyway).
My question is: It it a better thing for a married guy to just go to a prostitute if he's not getting what he needs at home?
I mean, is it better than going out and having an affair and meeting someone he may fall in love with? What about those potential famalies that could be wrecked? With a prostitute, it's just a one shot deal and no expectations of a relationship are involved. Isn't that better?
The guy I'm seeing now does this occasionally and I don't mind. I know he will always come back to me. I think it's actually kind of sexy.
2006-07-08 07:04:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK, of course the AIDS issue is important and another story. We both always use condoms.
Honestly, I like having the open relationiship.
2006-07-08 07:23:13 · update #1
I actually disagree. I mean yea ok you do have a good point but what if that prostitute has aids...? Is he going to know? No and what if she doesn't know.... I mean then he could get it and pass it on to you. Another thing, what if this guy is just coming back to you to get more booty from you? Im not sayin hes doing that but things happen and I think you should be careful..very careful.
2006-07-08 07:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hrscrzy4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to tell you the absolute truth on this one, because my
sister was a stripper for 7 years, and a friend of hers for a long
while too was involved in the sex industry. My sister loved all
the money at first. She loved thinking She was in control of the
men. Then she realized, it is the MEN who are in control, they
are the ones with the money, and the girls have to beg for it,
though it is not as obvious. The girls have to "work it" in order to
get that money...It is a very degrading way to make a living. And
while you get lots of money, isn't your self-esteem worth more?
There are girls who "disappear" because they go home with a
"client". I belonged to an organization that deals with things of
this nature. I have seen thousands of girls who were strippers
end up dead in trash bins decapitated or whatever else. Men
view these girls as sexual "objects", not as a real person. They
have fantasies in their heads....It is a dangerous occupation,
so please be careful, but I would strongly urge you to get rid of
the guy your with and stop "dancing" and make a better life for
yourself. My sister and her friend are both screwed up from
doing that for so long. They have bad issues with men. And
they find it hard to love themselves and care about themselves.
Let God in your life, he is the only one who can save you. You
have to save yourself! Make better choices in your life....
2006-07-08 14:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I don't feel it's right to go to a prostitute.I also wonder if they really aren't getting any at home.It sounds like a poor excuse.As far as you letting your man go out on you I think that is just crazy.That's not a respectable man.Sexy,No.
2006-07-08 14:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just fine ,if you dont mind aids
2006-07-08 14:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , its not okay to do either if you are married . Its wrong !
2006-07-08 14:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋