i have a lot of guy friends, and i dated for a little while but it didn't work out. almost all my friends are guys, is that a bad thing, should i have more girl friends, b/c some of them end up liking me and things just get weird when that happens. and i don't know how to act around them, b/c they start wanting to do things and hangout , which i wouldn't mind, except that they want to for different reasons than i do.???? and i'm a people pleaser, and i have a very flirtatious personality, what do i do??? i don't try to flirt with them it just kinda comes off that way!!!!
2006-07-08 07:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by beth_mutchler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am the same way to, i dont flirt but they are some way still attracted to me. I dont have no girlfriends like that so i think that having guy friends are good on some level, but when you need to talk about girl stuff, you should atleast have 1 or 2 girlfriends that you trust.
2006-07-08 07:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i can defnitely relate. when i was younger, most of my freinds were guys. that's fine, but i realized that sometimes you do just need to have other friends that are girls. believe me, dont give up any of your guy-friends. theyre great. theres way less drama and theyre more down-to-earth (most of the time). just make sure you DO have some girl friends. as for the whole flirting thing, that can be really tough. defnitely dont try to flirt. be nice to the person if they like you, but try to back off a little. thats a good way to send off the message without hurting their feelings.
2006-07-08 07:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by krush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best that when a guy starts giving hints about liking you, get the message across clearly that you're looking forward to being just friends.. and its not a big deal if you get along better with guys than with girls..
2006-07-08 07:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by luckyrobin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way as well. I wouldn't worry about it much, just make sure that the guy/s know where you stand. If they choose to roll out, let them go.
2006-07-08 07:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by R J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't think that is bad...
this shows your charisma... what's wrong if a person is kind of persona grata...
though, i think you should have girl friends to balance up your social life because this world made of both sexes, and the world is great with the existence of both...
you can chat about or hangout together with girl friends...some girls are great like sisters to us...
2006-07-08 07:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by solvemaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there isnt anything wrong w/ that....its like that w/ me too! your not the only 1! so dont worry about it!
2006-07-08 07:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by sweetblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋