im a 40 year old man, im going bald, have a beer belly, my left hand is paralyzed permanently, im on social security disability for my hand probably for the rest of my life. would you want to go out with someone in my shoes?
2006-07-08 06:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 20 years older then you. It isn't a matter of bald, beer belly or disability. A man who makes a woman's heart sing, gets her a twitter, is kind, a gentleman, fun to be with, willing to share the good & the bad, provides mature viewpoints. It isn't just something in the movies. I have lost one man to death and another to pride in illness. Perspective...I give most anything to have either back in my life.
2006-07-08 07:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by originalsoftlyrose 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There's someone out there for everyone. Don't focus on your bad qualities make light of the good ones. NO BODY is Perfect. Be patient and put your best foot forward. Girls want someone with Confidence in themselves but, not overrally confident. Good Luck and keep that chin up.
2006-07-08 14:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i couldn't because your bald and have a beer belly and I would have to see the hand to comment on that.
2006-07-08 20:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by yoyoluv27910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not for the going bald and beer belly....
2006-07-08 14:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're telling us your defects but not your assets? I wouldn't mind your paralyzed hand but what else do you have to offer? Also, are you doing anything to help your situation?
2006-07-08 14:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by california girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 yrs. older than you are and I prefer older men.If you were older and we clicked yes I would go out with you.The shoes your in should not be based on a relationship.There is much more to you than that.
2006-07-08 14:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I USE TO DATE A GUY WHO WAS 37 AND IN A WHEELCHAIR DUE TO SPINABIFIDA. ALL I SAW WAS HIM. OF COURSE HIS DISABILITY PLAYED INTO WHATEVER ACTIVITES WE WERE INVOLED IN, BUT HIS DISABILITY DIDN'T DEFINE WHO HE WAS AS A MAN. HE AND I BROKE UP BECAUSE HE PLAYED MIND GAMES, BUT NOT BECAUSE I COULDN'T DEAL WITH HIS PHYSICAL LIMITATIONS. I REALLY LIKED HIM TOO.A REAL PERSON SEES PAST EXTERIOR.
2006-07-08 14:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your a little older than me and I am not attracted to your type. Nothing personal really.
2006-07-08 13:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by sicilygal2581 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thanks,I am happy and "satisfied" with the man I have..=)Good luck!P.S...doesnt this seem kinda desperate of you?
2006-07-09 17:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me and my type of personality, it would really depend on your personality. depnds on how you would treat a woman too.
2006-07-08 14:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋