im 16 and im 1 month along how will my parents take it when i tell them for the first time?

Question

not much to say but i think my parents might kill me

Answer 1

mothers always can tell when thier daughters are pregnant.she will tell you in a few more weeks if you don't tell her.Some parents believe in abortions and some don't.

Answer 2

1. don't get an abortion u will regret it later on and it can be harmful to your body.
2. What have ur parents told u will happen if u get pregnant?
3. sit them down and tell them the news. they will be shocked and maybe a little upset and may even try to control ur pregnancy but remember, this is your baby. I personally recommend that you marry the father and raise the baby together, yes ur 16 but seance u already made the choice that ur ready to have sex then I've also excepted (even if u didn't think about it before) the consequences. raise this baby, it needs it's mommy!!!!!! u never know, this child ur carrying could change the world some day for the better. If ur parents won't allow u to marry ur bf and raise the baby together i say give it up for adoption. There are lots of couples out there who want a baby but cant have one. i suggest a closed adoption.
I will be praying for you.
God Bless!!!

Answer 3

Well coming from someone who had to do this mind you I was 19 at the time, I told the one I thought would be the least angry about it first, my dad, in my case. He didn't kill me and he didn't even scream he just had that hurt look on his face that we all hate when our parents are disappointed with something we did. That gave me the courage to tell my mom later that day about it and she didn't yell either the first thing she said was"Don't you even think about getting an abortion." My mom doesn't believe in them. I think it's a personal choice. Later we sat together and all talked about it my dad brought up my options. I kept the baby he is twelve now. If you still don't feel comfortable ask a relative to help that you trust and your parents like. I spent many nights crying before I finally had the courage to tell them I was about six weeks. If you want to talk just send me a message. Hope I helped a bit.

Answer 4

Although i agree that 16 is young, i don't think any of us should be telling you to abort! Your ? is asking how to tell your parents, not if you should abort! And yes your mom will most likely figure it out soon. My mom knew before i did! My advice is to sit down with your parents and just tell them straight out. Its going to be hard no doubt about that, but it's in your hands and your responsibility to step, be mature, and tell them. They will get mad, but they will also want to help, even if it doesn't seem like it. I'm not telling you to or not to abort, but there are so many other options and help that you can get! I hope that YOU make the decision that You want. You know your parents better than anyone, so you'll know when and how to tell them. Just don't wait to long. I hope everything works out for you. Take Care.

Answer 5

Your parents arent going to kill you sweetie.....they will be mad, hurt, disappointed...but not to the extreme that they will harm you. What you need to do now is tell your parents so you can both decide what options are best for you. I dont agree with abortion, because in my eyes it is killing a baby, and its not his or her fault they were conceived. You might want to think about adoption...give your baby to a family that cannot have children...or keep the baby and do your best to raise the child. I wish you luck!!

And by the way..everyone makes mistakes and the fact is that you are pregnant and everyone is harping on you about birth control is pointless.

Answer 6

depending oh how your parents are my parents were shocked my dad stopped talking to me he took away the car he had given me my mom was really upset and said she was not going to help me with anything about two weeks passed and then my mom helped find a doctor and all of the other stuff i would need to do then eventually they gave in what else can they do its already happened and in my case it was the first grandchild so they became happy grandparents and spoil the heck out of my child. Now also who the father is would make a big difference if its someone they dont know then they are really not going to be happy it just take longer to get use to it. may everything go well for you

Answer 7

Take it from me (a 17 yr old) who is 3 months pregnant. Telling your mother probably won't be as bad as your making it in your mind... Just tell her and wait to see what she says. I was surprised to find that my mom was more calm about the situation than I was.. Don't let anyone tell you to get an abortion, or put it up for adoption, or even keep it against your will... I know youre young and this is hard, but if you are responsible you can handle it...

Answer 8

hi! that is not something to be embarrassed about, and also you may want to not be afraid of telling your father and mom. you ought to start up donning paternity outfits round 5 weeks pregnant, to ensure your toddler protection. you're mom is perhaps in simple terms accepting the undeniable actuality that you've had relations with a boy without her understanding, and at one of those snug age. also, youngster being pregnant isn't in each and every mom's desires, so she is perhaps in simple terms accepting that. provide her a even as, and in some weeks she will have the ability to be back to general, and she or he will have the ability to be excited for a sparkling arrival of a pal. i'm positive. playstation : She's probably accepting the undeniable actuality that she's quickly going to be a Grandma, too. ;) good success & Congratulation's on your being pregnant.

Answer 9

You are old enough to have heard of birth control, but since your pregnant, You need to let your parents know. They wont kill you.Though they may feel you have killed apart of them at the moment, it will be hurt that they feel. Promise... they will get over it and U need to see a doctor. All towns have a local planned parenting or woman's clinic. If you need help for your prenatal care. Good Luck and God Bless You

Answer 10

I think that if the babies father is with you when you tell them they might not want to kill you as much as you think & have him ask for your hand in marriage & then that way he can make them know that he is not going to leave & that he is going to be with you for the rest of the childs life.

Answer 11

I guess you should have thought about that before you had sex and got pregnant. All you can do now is tell them and wish for the best. Truthfully they have every right to be upset because they will more than likely have to take the most responsibility for the child up front.