I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. We did it on my 5 day of my period, and we used a condom. But he "came" 3 times so we used a different condom each time, but now I have a stomach-ach and I feel like throwing up when I eat---why? and is it a good thing that he "came" 3 times, cause he told me I was very VERY tight and I dont know if that's a good thing or not cause this was my very first time of having sex. And why can't he say the "L" word (love), I mean we just made love and he can't say that he loves me? We've been dating since June 14, is that to soon to use the "L" word?
If you ahve any ANY advice, please tell me...PLEASE???
2006-07-08 05:59:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. We did it on my 5 day of my period, and we used a condom. But he "came" 3 times so we used a different condom each time, but now I have a stomach-ach and I feel like throwing up when I eat---why? and is it a good thing that he "came" 3 times, cause he told me I was very VERY tight and I dont know if that's a good thing or not cause this was my very first time of having sex. And why can't he say the "L" word (love), I mean we just made love and he can't say that he loves me? We've been dating since June 14, is that to soon to use the "L" word?
If you ahve any ANY advice, please tell me...PLEASE???
and i am 16, he's 20
2006-07-08 06:15:45 · update #1
And I'm 16 and he's 20. we'll both be a year older in Feb.
2006-07-08 06:16:18 · update #2
A month!? It won't last. Sex that fast is wrong. Just you wait, you'll probably push him away because he won't say that he love you.
2006-07-08 06:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not sex and sex is not love.
However, the best world comes when these 2 meet one and another.
Doesnt mean he had sex with you he loves you. What makes you think you were making love?
He just need a quick release and just because .....he can have sex with you! Nothing more. As for the stomach ache or throwing up...maybe one of the condoms was defective/broke/torn while sex or something change biologically in the body-hormone ect!
I suggest you see the dr. or pregnancy test for a start. At this point you have to take care of you 1st. Forget about love because he is a guy....guy used/not used love for sex and girl used sex to get love! Then ask him what he feels of you/relationship with you. Just sex buddy or more than that! Get a reality check!
2006-07-08 13:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be pregnant, but it is unlikely; however, maybe he gave you something, not necessarily an STD, but a regular disease: stomach virus or something. Best get that checked out so if you are pregnant, you can get it fixed before it becomes a huge problem.
I'm female and don't use the L word. You're expecting too much on that front. Give it a year. If he's still around then....
2006-07-08 13:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even been together for a month and you want him to tell you he loves you just because you had sex...I'm not a guy, but I think they have sex even when they aren't in love. Maybe you should give him more than a month to express his feelings.
2006-07-08 13:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 & 20?!? Girl, that's statutory rape and he should know better. He could go to jail or be on probabtion for five years AND be listed on the sex offenders list for life!
I wouldn't worry about if he says he loves you or not . . . that's the least of yours and his problems!
2006-07-08 13:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby you should get a pregnant test to make sure your not and if you are and don't want to be go see the Doctor and ask about the morning after pill!! i hope he says the L word soon!!
2006-07-08 13:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_girl14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "L" word is a stong word give him some time. if he loves you he will say it. It takes some time. How old are you?
2006-07-08 13:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by BigDaddy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋