I don't know what to do
2006-07-08 05:58:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hell no, because if she's that into lying she just might start stealing from you too, my sister is just like that and im not friends with her, find some better friends, good people don't have to lie....
2006-07-08 06:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one of those things that are entirely up to you. Is she a good enough friend that you're willing to stick with her, even if she drags you into it when one of her lies catches up to her? Are you willing to tell someone she's telling the truth when you know she's not? Or will she stop being your friend anyways if you don't back up her lies? As you get older, eventually you will learn to leave people behind who may not really be your friends, you just happen to live close to them or one of you approached the other once in school or somewhere. If she cares too much about money, she's probably a very shallow person that you'll have no deep conversations or friendship with anyways. If you realize that you're not like her because you usually tell the truth and you still enjoy things or other friends who aren't made of money, maybe you're better off without her. On the other hand, is she always like that or is it something she only does once in awhile? People do change, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. My advice is to avoid her when she's being really bad and to try to make it up to her if she straightens up. Be her friend again then if she really is trying to be a better person. But remember, it's just as easy for a bad person to drag a good one down as it is for a good one to pull a bad one up. So don't stay with her if she drags you down more often than you can keep picking her up. You deserve better than that and you should give yourself better than that.
2006-07-08 13:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering that trust is the most important ingredient in a relationship, and it's obvious to you that you can't trust her, I'd tend to say no. Plus, it does not sound as if your values are compatible if money is her yardstick for measuring the worth of a person and you go by something more substantial. However, a friend is a great treasure. People can change. I'd at least have a talk with her before pulling the plug. Who knows, you could be the key for her living a more fulfilling life
2006-07-08 13:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Leah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY would I still be friends with someone like that. I "was" married to a man that way. Stupid me I stayed with him for 17 years. But then I was scared to leave him as he was also very abusive with me (I went threw all 3 types of abuse with him). He could not open his mouth with out a lie coming out of it, you name it, he lied about it. And he was also a money hog too. Since I have gotten away from him, I feel so much better now.
Get away from your friend, you can do a lot better and futher more a good friend won't lie to you like that.
2006-07-08 13:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
Just because she has a problem with the truth doesn't meant she is all bad... She has other issues and being a liar helps her mask her real problems. Just always point out the stuff you know to be true and don't be nasty with it... Remind her that you are her friend reguardless to what is going on with her..
She just need attention, and you don't have to believe her to listen to her BS....LOL
2006-07-08 13:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dina W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You friendship does not have to based on her lies. Talk to her and tell her how uncomfortable it makes you. Emails work best. Be prepared that she will get upset. However you are ready to end the friendship anyway. Give your friend a chance.
2006-07-08 13:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a friend. Can't trust someone like that, they are shallow and they use people. I wouldn't associate with that person if I were you.
2006-07-08 13:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Howdy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me I would just tell her how it was going to be like that she was not going to lie to you no more and if she done it again I would just tell her that I did not want to be her friend no more.
2006-07-08 13:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by swaglehead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hellooooooooooooooooo......u shouldnt b askin this question..i think u do have tht much of sense...! its not worth havin frnds like ur friend..tke her off ur list of friends!
2006-07-08 13:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn`t have a friend like that. i think you should just dump her as a friend.
2006-07-08 13:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by queen . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋