how do i tell a girl i dont like her?

Question

shes nice and everything and shes alwayz buying me things and stuff. shes perfect but she stays to attached to me following me everywhere. how do i tell her i dont want to have a relationship wit her

Answer 1

You just politely explain that while you like her as a friend, she isn't what you are looking for... that it's just 'not there' for you. She, being a human, will probably be upset at first because all of us feel bad a bit when we are rejected; but, she will get over it. And if she really cares about you then she will want to stay your friend and respect your choice.

Answer 2

Quit taking stuff from her when she wants to buy you things. Plain come out and tell her "Look i dont like you like that, your a good friend and all but i dont want a relationship" Your learn as you get older that the easiest thing to do is just tell the truth.

Answer 3

i dated a girl like that. have you ever dropped hints that you aren't interested? (such as, not wanting to hold hands or make out, refusing her gifts, saying you don't feel like going somewhere with her when she asks) the later you can (cheaply) say, "i tried to be nice about it..." etc. but i think its better if you sit her down and explain that you don't feel the same way for her. make sure you know exactly why you don't want to be with her... because she WILL ask why not, and thats the hardest thing to tell a person. hopefully you both can still remain friends.

the girl i was dating then complained that everyone always rejected her or "shot her down" even though she was always there for them and spent lots of money on them. she wanted an explanation for this, and it's hard to find a kind way to say "you're really nice and i like you, but you're annoying and i don't want to be with you."
she and i are still friends btw :)
good luck

Answer 4

No matter what you say she's not going to listen. These people "believe" they can't be without you, much less live without you. There's no avoiding their feelings getting hurt because they live in a false reality. As do the vast majority of us, but this brand is particularly deceived since the disease is extremely contagious. Remember, you are not responsible for anyone esle's feelings no more than you are responsible for the way they look.

Answer 5

Honesty is the best policy,

Tell her nicely But firmly that you are NOT interested and set boundaries.

Firmly say I wish to have no more contact with you and leave me be.

She will be tearful and hurt but she really needs not to be so "pushy" to get someone to like her.

And pray that the right guy will come along for her. You are a very good person NOT to take advantage of her and pray to God what to say to her.

Answer 6

Err. Why dont you just tell her. Come out and say it. Or if you really want to be mean >:) then tell her that you found a nice man to marry lol. But Id stick with #1 :P

Answer 7

Stop taking any gifts first off. Tell her you only want to be her friend or make it clear that you're looking at someone else.

Maybe she follows you around because she feels alone & needs a friend, maybe it's not about anything else.

Answer 8

Tell her up front before things get even more serious. You could end up hurting her really bad.

Answer 9

truthfully, honestly, sincerely
so stop taking those gifts
make a draft of what you want to say, this doesn't mean you have to memorize it either, this is just to give you an idea on what you actually want to say, then edit, rephrase.
when you've gathered enough courage to say it, do it.

Answer 10

Be honest she deserves at least that much respect. Just tell her.