Ok, i have a friendship dilemma. my friend has stopped talking to me on the basis that we didnt invite her out with us last night. The problem arises with the fact she thinks she should have been, but we had already postponed another plan to ensure that she could come due to her having piano lessons on a fri night. however, she is only annoyed with me. But recently, she has been moaning about us, and is trying to move away from us, yet still thinks she should be our priority. I dont want to be annoyed with her, but its not fair on anyone else. I still want to be her friend, but what should i do??
2006-07-08 04:19:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she kinda sounds like a snobby girl. she thinks that everyone should revolve around her and her life, but she shouldn't have to do the same for you guys. too me, it seems like she doesn't fully appreciate having you guys as friends, and i don't think that's someone who's a good friend @ all. i think you should let her go, after all, it's truly her loss-- not yours or anyone else's.
2006-07-08 04:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by jetters007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From this she sounds a bit like she wants to be queenbee, and wants all attention on her, and that all parties and outings are arranged through her with her approval, she is just starting to loose that control, and she is scared and does not like it, and will try and find other people who she can try to do that to. You just happen to have been the person who was there at the time, and she decided to take it out on you, it is most probably nothing against you, she is just frustrated and showing her bratish side. She'll soon get over it, and learn to live with her new role within the group of friends or she'll move away to another group. Either way, don't worry, whatever happens, happens for the best.
2006-07-08 05:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this might sound harsh, But if she really feels that way then she is not taking your feeling into consideration she is only thinking about her own feelings. Like i said it might sound harsh but i have gone though the same thing, all because i was invited to some party but my best friend wasn't and she got p***ed off with me, so i sat down and told her that it wasn't my fault. If she can't see that she has upset you over something stupid then she is no best friend at all. Sit her down and tell her how you feel if she is still p***ed off with you then I'd call it a day on the friendship. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-08 04:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need friends that are going to stress you out and annoy you. if she thinks that you guys rejected her then give her a break...thats only her issue. and believe me, friends will come and they will go. you just can't worry yourself by waisting your time trying to worry about a friend who has an issue. leave her alone. she will get over herself. but if she doesn't---you will live. i'm 15 now and every year i get stupid friends like the one you are talking about now. i had to learn to get over those things and live my life. because all you are doing is making yourself go crazy over some worthless friendship with an immature snob. she is not worth your time. and i know that you probably have better things to do than to worry if your so-called "friend" is okay. or the best thing to do is to tell her how you feel. tell her that if she doesn't get her act together than she is gonna risk losing you as a friend.
2006-07-08 04:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Brittany♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends move into different directions and this is ok. You can have different types of friend and sometimes this means keeping them separate. Its hard, but you can still be friends with them all!!
2006-07-08 04:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell her how you feel and what you think about the situation-even if it has to be in a letter to her, if she doesn't come around then stop talking to her for awhile. she'll come around and if she doesn't then she doesn't really care about you and she is just a control freak!
2006-07-08 04:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that she has to remember one little thing and that is " Anyone you want to keep in your life never take that person forgranted ".
2006-07-08 04:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by dax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it all ,ask whats the matter.if she is still being a pain .ignore her for now she will be OK eventually .or she will leave you all and go off ,its life if she does.
2006-07-08 04:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Alexandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to be a very selfish friend you have there. Tell her life is like a movie and there is only one star.
2006-07-08 04:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by norwood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it.Get other people to talk to her to,so she gets convienced it's not your falut.If that dosen't work just be straight up true.Tell Her how you feel.
2006-07-08 04:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Blinggg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋