How do I word an invitation for others to join us for dinner if they like (not hosted) before a party?

Answer 1

If you're talking about a verbal invite and just want to know how to phrase it, say something like, "Some of us are getting together for dinner at _____'s before the party at __ o'clock. Maybe we'll see you there, okay?" If it's a formal written invitation you're talking about, you could say, "An informal dutch-treat gathering for dinner at _____'s Restaurant will be held at __ o'clock before the party. If you'll be joining us, call the restaurant at 555-0000 to add to the reservation under the name _______ . Hope to see you there!"

Answer 2

The problem with the above invite is that it assumes that you *will* be paying for it.

You can't do a formal invite to a group of people for dinner and then expect them to pay for it. You could call them and tell them that you'll be at dinner at Sal's Tacos before the party and if anyone wants to join you, let you know and you'll make the reservation. Tell them it will be dutch but fun! : )

Answer 3

Are you going to be paying for the food serviced at the party ?

Answer 4

One of the best ways that I have always word it is :

Please join us for supper before the party begins. If it is a theme party, you might want to say something like..... for a taste of _____ please join us at 6:30 p.m., or something like that.

If it is a BBQ -- How about this......come and get you some grub before the party begins; scoot'n, hoot'n and hollar'n begins at dusk.....