Me and my fiance had a blow out last monday- fo something I did, I apologised, I felt so bad a drove for 2 1/2 hours to say to his face I am sorry and sort things out, we talked and he was cross with me- I asked him if he wanted to split and he said no, he said he was unhappy and having a bad week and was bored (we had perviously lived together for 2 years then i had to move away for a job). We left on good terms and I thought it would be a good idea to leave him be for a few days and not contact him but he said I could email him
i sent him flowers on thursday and he emailed me to say thankyou and "not to worry about him becuase he is not worth it"
I emailed back to say he was worth it.
Its now saturday and havent heard from him- but spoke to his mum this morning as she wanted to know whats going on- I told her the truth and she said she will talk to him.
I'm scared and hurt, should I email him just to say hello? Im meant to be staying with him next week for a long weekend.
2006-07-08 03:02:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Follow your heart and be brave
2006-07-08 03:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Useless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Email him to say that you love him. No need to say more.
Also 5 hours worth of gas sounds a little excessive to me but I hope it was worth it. Living through disagreements and coming out with deeper feelings for each other is what a permanent partnership is about. The only way that can be done is not to panic or blame yourself over much but to be loving and caring and honest - and COMMUNICATE ... let the other person know how much you care!
2006-07-08 03:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if he really loves you why is he treating you like this??? Whatever you did, you said sorry, and what does he mean by "he is not worth it" I would say that is his way of telling you to leave him alone. Men suck when they play these games and for some reason they all do it. I know this must be really hard for you, but I wouldn't email him, leave it be...wait... if you don't hear from him by Wednesday...then I think he is making his point clear.
2006-07-08 03:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by chillilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes email him but if he keeps giving you the cold shoulder move on you have done everything possible to say sorry and he is an idiot if he doesn't realise what a great girlfriend he has .Good luck.
PS if your long weekend is cancelled I'm available.xx.
2006-07-08 03:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by pig m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a bit depressed. Is he the type of person who gets down? I would act as though things are fine and be chirpy and try to cheer him up. The thing you did to upset him- is it something that would make him depressed after he had stopped being angry? Email him a chatty, friendly message and try to coax him out of what appears to be a bit of a low mood. Good luck!
2006-07-08 03:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by verity b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah a email would be a good idea confront him that way.
2006-07-08 03:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tower Of Strength 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....no.......sorry what was the question? say hello was it? if it was then do it.
2006-07-08 03:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by paul_9_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋