i had two best friends once upon a time. one guy n one gal. i realised tat my guy frnd like my gal frnd n i really put all my effort to get them start going around. soon after they started goin around they have got so involved in their own love life that they have completly forgotten me. its like now im like jus anotther friend to them and nothing more i feel they dont care for me any more n i really feel bad abt it.
2006-07-08 02:52:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well it depends if they are true friends then they will be able 2 be trusted if there not then no you should never trust them cause it could come back at you and they could hurt you bad so think 2 yourself are they really my friends or not!
2006-07-08 03:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by happybunnygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tanya,
If I have learned anything in my 40 years, it is that true best friends are hard to find. Anyone can be a friend, but a best friend is rare and a treasure. My other lesson that I have learned, is that communication is THE most important tool that we have, and we do not use it enough.
If these are really good friends that you want to hold on to, then sit them down and tell them gently exactly how you feel and let them respond. New love is always exciting and you want to be with that person all the time. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them! Let them have their time, but let them know that you still like hanging with them too, and they will wake-up! Good Luck!
2006-07-08 11:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by bettybooplover66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can trust my friends, that is why they are my friends. The friend I have had for the longest time is 43 years worth.
Cat
2006-07-08 10:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, I'm the "boy" in the story and when my friend (you) started to talk to other people, i kinda confronted her as to why she isn't talking to me like we used to.
then she told me why, and then i realized that i was so selfish that i forgot about her. i sometimes feel so guilty about that.
the moral of the story is that - they don't really think that you are being left out. confront them. you will be happy.
Trust me.
2006-07-08 10:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Lucky you got rid of these two disloyal people who you thought were friends, it looks more like they were just users.
2006-07-08 10:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Curly Top 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all natural.. i feel thats completly natural coz its happened to me so many times that i've kinda bcom numb to such stuff.. yeah trust the trustworthy ones not all...
2006-07-08 10:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u feel bad because they have came much closer....... but yes there r stilll friends u can trust............trust me my id is akhilyourfriend@yahoo.co.in.................i m online right now
2006-07-08 10:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by Akhil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes eventhough sometimes they forgot me.. i know were still friends.. just undertand the situation..
2006-07-08 09:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by t0shin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋