Did you always know it was your cousin, or did you find out after the relationship started? Did you break up because of it? Did you marry? Do you think it's acceptable as long as you don't have kids together?
2006-07-08 02:45:57 · 26 answers · asked by Boo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. Of course, all my male cousins are kind of fat and ugly! But seriously, I don't think it's harmful provided it's a second cousin or higher--the genetic risk to any offspring from such a union is comparable to, say, having children late in life.
2006-07-08 02:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie P 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Well, one of my cousins married another cousin and they had a child. However, it was not on purpose. They found out after the fact that they were in some way related and if it wasn't for their child they would have gotten a divorce. They only had one child though and thank God the little girl was healthy.
2006-07-08 03:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by foudy2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by warrenfeltz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, my answer is this. when i was in High School, i met my cousin (her grandma and my dad were half brother and sister) i was 17 she was 15 one night, things got kinda crazy at a family reunion and we had sex. it was awsome!!!! i know it sounds weird, however realize i was young so was she and we didnt even hardly know each other. we had sex 3 more times and the relationship was progressing and nobody knew in our family. but reality set in and we realized there was no future. it would have been way to hard and weird for our family.. so we broke it off and have both moved on and are both married to wonderful people and neither one of us regrets our decision ..hope this helps
2006-07-08 02:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by needingitnow342000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it is legal to marry your first cousin in all fifty states. I had a one night stand with a cousin of mine, although I didn't know she was my cousin at the time. I didn't see her anymore after that, cause she moved away.
2006-07-08 02:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and second cousins are allowed to marry, you only need to look at royalty and the very wealthy. It is a way to keep power and to keep the wealth in the family.
Cleopatra married her brother and Caligula had sex with various members of his family. It's part of life. Live with it.
2006-07-08 02:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a romantic relationship with my cousin until my sister got jealous LOL!!!
2006-07-08 03:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14, haven't been in a relationship with any of my cousins.. one of them is Hot though.
2006-07-08 02:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by MaYoOoZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! eweeeee! That is gross. However, I did know a girl whose last name did not change when she got married. She met her husband at a family reunion. He was a 4th cousing twice removed (or something like that--so it was legal). And, yes, they were from Alabama.
2006-07-08 02:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by ssc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, i do not agree w/ that.... that is your blood... so to me that is a no no!!!!!! i do know a chick from school when i went back the the day.... she slept w/ her cousin and has a baby by him.... i never liked the girl but i do feel bad for the child...
2006-07-08 02:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋