y do teens think they have to have sex?

Question

no its not my kid im only 13 and i was just wondering. the question poped into my head last nite

Answer 1

because many states are saying its ok for young teens to do it. south carolina made it legal for adults to have sex with 14 year olds

Answer 2

Well I ended up having sex when I was 16 which was to young. reason being I thought that he "loved" me. Well I thought that was a way of showing I loved him back. I realize 9 years later that he didn't and neither did anyone of my other boyfriends. Guys are smooth in a sense when it come to sex. They can sweet talk there way into doing it. I came to find out it is such a waste of time. Now I am married with twins and wish I would of waited for my husband. i am years to late though. That was a good question. I hope this helps you. If this is your child you might also want to mention that almost 85% of sexually active people have HPV. And it is very contagious. My mom always told me about it. Sex just ain't worth it. The statistics of HPV is actually alot higher. Those are the ones accouted for. Think of the ones that aren't. Alot of people don't even go get checkups.You can look it up on the internet and see if you would like.

Answer 3

Because they are starting to look like adults, and learning to think like adults, they feel that they should be allowed to behave like adults. I think they should slow down, enjoy their teen years, and not to rush growing up. Growing up is a process that takes time, some people don't manage to do it until their 30's and some never grow up. But your teen years are the most special, old enough to do what you want, within reason, young enough not to have the responsibilities of being an adult( paying bills, loans, worrying about your job, marriage and children) and you only get 1 shot at this. Why anyone would want to rush this process is beyond my understanding. Be a kid and have fun, you will be an adult for a lot longer than you will be a kid.

Answer 4

I am 14 and I started having sex when I was 12 at the time I just liked to do it because it felt good but now I regret it because im pregnant now and I have a 1 year old daughter

Answer 5

well i thick most of the people that are teens that want to have sex is guys anyway. i think guys have more hormones then girls for some reason cause i allways see them talk about porn and sex in school and bringing porn magazines and stuff like that. I'm only 13 years old and i sometimes think about sex, but i don't want to have it yet. cause if i get pregnant at 14 what am i suppose to do?

Answer 6

Teens think they have to have sex for many reasons. One major one is peer pressure. Everyone else is doing it so they think they should also. They think it's the "cool" thing to do and that it's a have to do thing to be cool, but it's not. Another point is most teens like being risky and taking risks. Having sex is a big risks. I personally think it's way better to wait til you're married.

Answer 7

absolutely. many young ones feel like the only way they can be viewed as grownup is to have sex. the rub is, you never get yer first time back. sex really is special, man. but life's wierd, if you don't know how special it is and you just give it away to whoever floats yer boat at the time, you'll live to understand why ye shoulda been more prudent with yer affections. be good t'yerself, lass. wait. find someone whom you really love. make sure of it, then have yer fun. only , if you do it this way, your 'misery' account will not accrue emotional debts that you can never repay. good luuck, child.

Answer 8

Because they are not educated enough on abstaining from it and why it's so important to use good judgment when deciding to do it. Parents don't pay enough attention to what when where and with whom their kids are with anymore. T.V. doesn't help either nor does the clothing lines like Mary Kate and Ashley(even though I love the clothes) are mostly mini version of grown adults clothing. Where is the innocence children use to have? Can somebody please tell me that

Answer 9

Because they are ignorant and schools fail to educate them and allow the kids to think that sex is natural for them to want at a young age.

Also parents dont supervise the kids well enough

Answer 10

It's mainly because they WANT to. Just as a first kiss makes them feel "grown up" having sex makes them feel lucky they had the opportunity as well as the fact that it's an urge we as a species have.