Is that normal?

Question

Please help just if you care I am 18 years old guy. I think that I had some problems in my early childhood
because my mom was sick and they had to keep me away from her when I was about 8 months so I had to be weaned after that when my mom became ok they brought me back to her. when I was about 5 or 6 I had some dreams about my mom like a monster and others about me being breastfeed by women who I do not know. when I grow up I discovered that I like older women and always have fantasies about older women being my mom or something and fatasies about breastfeeding too.It's hard to contact women in our country so I always try to get them through the internet but usually they refuse to talk because I am younger and I do not like to lie about my age. What's confusing me that is there a relation between my childhood problems and my condition now or I am just like anyone. It's very hard for me to get a doctor or to tell anyone.

Answer 1

your normal......the rest of society hasn't caught up with you yet. just look at the young celebrities wanting older women too. you should have been a little more detailed about your breast dreams.

Answer 2

Well, given that you were taken away from your mother and wasn't returned to her until you were 5 or 6, you didn't have a mother when you needed her the most. During your formiddable years, the time that you learn and grow. This is usually (for women) referred as a daddy complex. They tend to go to older men because they didn't have a father in their lives and they are searching for what they were missing. It isn't a illness or anything like that . . . it's just a preference and how the brain works. I wouldn't worry about it but if you really think that it's not normal or you might need help working out all of the issues that happened to you when you were a kid. You really should talk to a doctor about all this. It helps to talk, no matter how hard it is.

Answer 3

Easy, doesn't sound like you have an oedipus complex or anything. You just need to get out more so you're not so drawn to worry over something so silly. There are plenty of people who go through the same set of events.

Since you've already resolved and recognized what's up, just do something else. Sounds like you have a lot of attention that needs to go towards something. Get the fundamentals taken care of (whether it's a job or your driving license) and get out! Go meet some people, let them show you around, and have fun. This isn't as serious as you're making it, so lighten up!!