my parnts say we are moving to north carolina and i dont want to leave everything i have here and become th loser new girl
2006-07-08 02:30:33 · 12 answers · asked by tt 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i understand how you feel.. but sometimes we have to just do what we do not want.. we did that when i was a child and my sister absolutely hated her new school... but if have to go and adjust the best you can.... i hope things will be better for you and hopefully you will make new friends and try not to let it upset you so much.. think positive and hopefully things will work out fine..
2006-07-08 02:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only a loser if you make it so. Being the new kid can be an advantage, too. Do a little research on-line through school webpages in the area of North Carolina where you're gonna be. That'll give you a peek at what those kids wear and what types of sports extra-curriculars are hot there. With a little pre-shopping, you can be on the IN very quickly.
Use being new to observe for a week or two. Who is popular? Why? Is it for reasons you can live with? Who listens to your type of music? T-shirts are a dead give away sometimes! Have an MP3 player? Use it as a mode of breaking the ice...downloads to share. If you can observe closely for a week, you'll have all the info you need.
Think of the move as an adventure. Just remember, don't back yourself into a corner with talk you can't or didn't walk. They'll be just as intimidated by you (will you out popular them) as you are of being new.
Be yourself...those that mind, don't matter. Dr. Seuss My daughter taught me that quote. :) Good luck.
2006-07-08 02:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by GoElvis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the fact is that you have to move and nothing is going to change that. So, you have two choices....you can decide do well or you can decide to fail and be miserable. You're in control of your own mind and actions. Your friends now are your friends because of who you are, not because you've been there a long time, and if you're well liked at school now, you will be at a new school. It's good that you're moving over summer...you might feel kinda odd the first day or two at school, but so will everyone else because it's the beginning of the school year. Just go dressed casual...pair of jeans and a simple but cute top, which are in style no matter where you live. Fresh easy hair and makeup and meticulously clean nails etc. Put on a nice white smile and be kind to everyone at the new school. Join things, sign up for things, and be your charming self and you'll do fine. I promise!
2006-07-08 02:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go outside and just tell yourself to look around and appreciate all that you've had. Then, think about all the OPPORTUNITIES you'll have where you move. New things and people and places.
Don't get crammed up on what you'll be missing. There's so much life ahead and there's so much left to find out and explore about. Drop the stoneface, cry if you need to, and have fun. Eat your favorite flavored ice cream, talk with some friends, go bowling or see a movie.
2006-07-08 02:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...quit school, get a good paying job and a car; find an apartment. That shouldn't be hard for a KID, now should it?? Get Real, honey....you don't have any control over this and I'm sure they're moving for a good reason; like, making a better home for their ungrateful children perhaps? Or getting a job to feed those same selfish kids?? Suck it up....you'll have plenty of time to be on your own and make your own decisions.
2006-07-08 02:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with it! What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
You won't be the new person forever and very often life presents us with issues we have choice but to accept.
You'll move and you'll make new friends and you'll survive it all.
Just don't close the new world out with a bad attitude becasue you had to go against your will and you'll be fine.
Can't you find anything about the new place worth moving for?
2006-07-08 02:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by BigScaryBob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see where you any choice. If your parents are moving to a new location they must have a good reason to do so. Not to worry, when you get to the new location you shouldn't have any problem making new friends and besides look on the bright side, it may be better there then it is where you are now.
2006-07-08 02:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by AL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i just went through something similar. we moved to australia 4 months ago from new zealand. i hated the idea, wept for months, but i'm here now, and when you there you'll realise its really not gonna be all that bad. things turn out best for those who make the best out of the way htings turn out.
things will be different, it'll be new, and you'll be leaving friends and things you know, but you get used to it, and you learn to like the new environment.
you probably just a bit afriad coz you comfortable where you are and know your surroundins. but dont worry, things will be fine, just move. it'll be ok
2006-07-08 02:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gives you a chance to make a lot of new friends. I know that you'll say you don't want new friends but it really becomes fun. Saying goodbye is harder than saying hello.
2006-07-08 02:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Raylene G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prayer should help you find your center. Trust in God. It could be that you are meant to experience something in your new city that you never would have where you are now. Maybe it is to save someone's life, or meet the man of your dreams. Who knows, but put your faith in God.
2006-07-08 02:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by gplay2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋