Some FTMs are attracted to gay men, but after some types of sex reassignment surgery, they still don't "measure up." Are there gay men who are attracted to this circumstance and open to sexual or permanent committed relationships to an FTM. Note that FTM is "female to male," NOT "male to female" or the rather derogatory "shemale." What is the best way to find such gay men?
2006-07-08 02:08:24 · 10 answers · asked by Peace Pup 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I cannot speak for everyone, but I would personally be open to dating a transman. It should just make sense, but it seems weird to me that if the same physical being walked up to me identifying as female, I wouldn't be up for it. More to Romantic orientation then just sex, then isn't there? I have heard that the surgeries that they have now can't make an average sized penis yet. I've dated a pretty small guy before, and...oral wasn't as fun, but that had nothing to do with liking the guy or not. It actually had little to do with finding him physically attractive or not, for that matter. I think I might be outside of the average in that the penis is NOT the thing I find most attractive (physically) about a guy; I get really angry when porn doesn't show faces etc. As for how to find guys that are open...I'm honestly not sure. It might be better to be up front about it, though it's definitely not my place to tell you you should have to (you shouldn't have to). It would at least filter out the losers.
2006-07-08 18:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For someone such as myself, it seems quite simple. You are attracted to whom you are attracted to. So, I would say I would be open to this curcumstance. I feel attraction has no bounds or limitations, but most people don't allow themselves to give into any situation described as controversial or different. The social stigma prevents most gay men from attempting relationships with transgendered people, especially FTMs, concerning many of their gay friends wouldn't approve either. People fear isolation from their support group. But it is possible.
I would suggest trying local clubs, community events, online interest groups, etc. Just get out there and meet people. I've learned that everyone is unique in what they find attractive. I'm wouldn't dare use the corny statement "There is someone out there for everyone." Instead, I'll say this: There are MANY people out there who would want a relationship with you. Good luck sorting out the ones who actually deserve you! lol. Good luck!
2006-07-08 02:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As open minded and accepting as i'm, i imagine, experience, pick my guy to were born a male. there's a guy on the YMCA I used to bypass to. I met him contained in the sauna of all places. purely large small communicate. he's gay and kind of wonderful, in an off beat way. properly, I found out he's FtM. (He became wearing boxers and reading a singular contained in the sauna, which no different adult males there do. He had mastectomy scares. And he became showering in a jock, with a poorly & oddly formed some thing in it). in the journey that they attain the extent the position they can provide a FtM a set of completely function male junk, which could be distinct. yet till that element, i pick him to have what God gave him. I purely am no longer fascinated in some thing female. i think undesirable that i think this manner. yet i am going to't lie about what or who i'm fascinated in.
2016-11-30 20:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by carachure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated a FTM bear and Ive had a great deal of fun with him. He has had his masectomy when he was 20. Still has a vagina
I think it's trerriffic and heis a good friend
2006-07-20 17:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by eddie9551 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you becoming a man? What is this about 'measure up'? When you become a man don't they give you size choices? I would love to find out more about this subject.
I am always more attracted to a person spirit more than anything else.!
2006-07-18 05:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think they are great. i dated one, and he was a great guy. i would be open to dating one again, if i was to break up with my boyfriend.
how he found me, was he met me at my job. he called me and asked me out. i was floored. never had anyone done that to me before, and i felt swept away.
i hope you find a good guy, and wish you all the best.
2006-07-21 10:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Krazie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they like it
2006-07-21 01:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by jeffuu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is interesting
2006-07-19 23:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre sexy
2006-07-20 22:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by lord i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno
2006-07-16 09:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by piggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋