I'm going to overnight camp tommorow(Sunday) and im really scared and nervous. This is my first time. I know I will miss my mom but I still want to go. Please help!!
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2006-07-08 02:03:58 · 23 answers · asked by Isabel Maselty 3 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Take a deep breath, relax and enjoy it. You are branching out from your family. It's a natural thing. Your support system is still there for when you need it. Explore & learn from your opportunities & go back & share them with the others. And have fun!
2006-07-08 02:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been just where you are when I was young. Church Camp.
I was scared to death because it was the first time I had been out on my own like that. This was for a week, not just overnight.
All I can tell you is before it was over I loved it. My fear proved to be just that, fear. Remember you will be with an adult that will be there for you. If you don't know what to do just go to them, they will help.
I found out something I did not expect from that experience. The things we fear the most we will remember the best. We just have to let ourselves take that adventure. If you always do, no matter what it is, you will be so surprised at how wonderful your memories will be when you are older.
You will find it is more fun than something to fear. But you must let yourself have that fun.
And what ever you do, IGNORE, the unfeeling notheads who have answered you here. No matter where life takes you you will always find these kiind of people. Move on to people that care and you will do fine.
2006-07-08 09:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you explained your question you answered it! When you said: "I'm going" that said it all - you are going to take the step and go whether your "scared" or not!!!! That is an admirable thing to do and very "grown up" for you will be "on your own" and even though you'll "miss" someone - hopefully, nothing will "happen" and you will be okay!!!! Being in the type of situation you are in is frightening to anyone who hasn't done it before!!!! It is always "frightening" to do anything for the "first" time! But when one doesn't "suffer" and the "thing" they are scared of "happens" with no reprecussions - then they won't be afraid to do other "things", huh? Good luck to "U"!!!!
2006-07-08 10:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
Seriously WHAT'S to be scared of?
What is, or are your specific fears?
Focus on them... it's not realistic some wild animal is going to eat you. First there are likely none around, secondly, the people who are in charge of you will NOT allow that.
As far as missing your mom... that's sweet, but... separating from your parents is inevitable and a part of growing up and becoming independent. THIS... camping gig? Is just the first JOG in that journey.
Don't be scare... I promise, everything will be okay.
2006-07-08 09:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. bring something from home - a stuffed animal, photo of mom.
2. tell your mom that you're scared and nervous.
3. ask your mom to write/call/email. Get some stamps and preaddress envelopes so you can write your mom.
4. keep a journal/scrapbook/take photos - you can share with your mom - think of it as an adventure that you can share with your mom later.
5. relax and have fun! Your mom wants you to have fun. Maybe you'll meet a new best friend or learn a new skill.
2006-07-08 09:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by guinevere208 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you won't be the only person at camp who is there for the first time, and I'm sure some of those other first-timers will also be scared. Maybe getting together with a few of them will help all of you feel a little less nervous, and it'll at least definitely help you feel less alone.
You can do it! =)
2006-07-08 09:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by newsy891 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and remeber it's an adventure that your Mom will be awaiting to hear all about, It'll be fun, so, have fun and be ready,
also pray tonight that you'll be alright Bolster your self-confidence. Everyone will be so proud of your pioneering spirit !
Peace.
Remember to check out the night sky...don't forget your flashlight and those glowsticks are cool too.
Carry-on and be "a happy camper"
smile.
2006-07-08 09:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by JRev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what type of camp ? the ones in a tent or like summer camp
either way both are really fun
dont be scared enjoy
2006-07-08 09:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by ask_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always stick together with someone that will make u feel comfortable and never try to explore/try new things and places alone.Think positive about things before going to sleep that night so that u won't get nightmares.Trust me,OK?
2006-07-08 09:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by t_1920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up princess. when you get their you will probably be so busy making new Friends and exploring the camp by the time you go to bed you'll be so exhausted that you wont have to to be scared.
2006-07-08 09:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by ah64dtk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋