I feel ugly when i stand b4 mirror,actually i am whitish brown ,slim looking.then also i feel guilt n hesitation to talk with girls ,my friends says i am good n handsome but no girl said this can any girl clear my problem .i like to talk with girls but i feel hesitation,help me....
2006-07-08 01:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by kashi pathi 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Go to a mental consultant. You have some issues. You just need some guidance. Nothing wrong with you bro.
2006-07-08 02:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to make others feel good about you if you don't feel good about you. Your problem is that you lack self-confidence and unfortunately many girls look for that when choosing their guy.
Most girls find it very attractive when the guy appears to be sure of himself.When you start thinking that you are a good catch, you will start acting like it, and will attract more girls. Good Luck!!
2006-07-08 09:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate,
but that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant,
gorgeous, handsome, talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God within us.
It is not just in some; it is in everyone.
And, as we let our own light shine, we consciously give
other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.
(Nelson Mandela)
you are beautiful, be your best you.
2006-07-08 12:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by naz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no problem with you...you're just having insecurities in yourself,but don't worry,it's a part of teen's life...just believe in yourself...when you stand in a mirror, say this to yourself: I'm a unique person.ten times.also, i want to share this saying to you: some people say I'm beautiful,some say I'm not.but God created all things beautiful therefore I'm a beautiful....although i really don't know how do you look like but i believe your handsome..
2006-07-08 09:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by iAnE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo first let me say you have to feel good about your self and that will show and trust me there is no man sexier when he is standing there confident and willing to talk so put you self out there and talk to the girls ok so not everyone is going to like you but trust me there will be ones that do so go get them girls let me know how you do.......one
2006-07-08 09:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by onlyme84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to feel ok and respect yourself. that's the first thing you have to do to have help you talk with girls. Try to find girls through your hobbys so you'll make sure that you'll have sth in common to talkabout in the first place... Ehm....It just needsa little bit courage to take the 1st step and go and talk to her.
2006-07-08 10:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's one solution to meet girls get the girls like yourself ugly cause the beautiful one are hard to get and be content what you have.
2006-07-08 10:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey loosen up a bit.. its ok to feel ugly and you know everyone does sometimes you just have to loosen up and see what others say about you ..you know.. i wouldnt worrie bout it just have fun with life and dont worrie bout it k.. bye...MaCkEnZiE
2006-07-09 04:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young dont worry about it. when your older it will happen naturally. your also not from america but just wait you will catch up.
2006-07-08 09:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry everyone is beautiful in thier own way
2006-07-08 09:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋