is it true that a person can be straight even though they've fallen in love with the same sex? can there be reasons as to why this happens? and does this happen...
2006-07-08 00:59:58 · 17 answers · asked by drewnky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The reason you fall in love with someone from the same sex is because you're GAY. Time to come out of the closet fruitcake.
2006-07-08 01:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Loretta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually.... I don't think so. The reason why someone isn't straight is because he/she has fallen in love with the same sex and has a relationship with him/her. But there is a difference between having a crush or idolizing that person and actually going out with that someone. If someone admires or has a crush on a person of the same sex, he/she is NOT considered gay but if someone has a relationship with the same sex, he/she is no longer straight. As for why it happens, I can only say that the human heart is complicated and no one can understand a human's desires. And yes, it obviously happens. Everywhere and anywhere.
2006-07-08 01:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably not. It is not fully understood why this happens yet, but it happens in all cultures and it has happened since the beginning of known history.Some studies say it has to do with one's upbringing, or one's genes, etc...You could behave straight again for a long while but sooner or later those feelings will return and what you do with them and how you handle it will depend on you and on the circumstances you are going through at that time, you could either fight your feelings and desires and abstain from any further homosexual activities or indulge, because at sometime in your life you engaged in a same sex relationship and that could mean that you are either gay or bi-sexual but many guys at some time in their lives especially when they were teens or boys have had sexual contact with members of their own sex, but it could have been just curiosity or sexual exploration and that could have helped in identifying for them their sexual preference, and most of those guys have led a heterosexual life.
2006-07-08 01:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is difficult because you might be opening the door into homosexuality. Right now your are in a grey area unless you find several other people of the same sex attractive. This one person may be so great that love can be known between you but if you find yourself looking at others then it becomes a issue of bi or homosexual. Also, I think if you love the person because of there phsique you might be homomsexual but if it is their personality some soul searching may be in order.
2006-07-08 01:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by John K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. However it depends if that relationship was born out of curiosity or out of genuine affection for that person. This can happen but the question is could you feel this way about anyone else of the same sex.
2006-07-08 01:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I believe that can be true. And I think many people are "born" gay and others fall into a relationahip with same sex because they have"fallen in love".
2006-07-08 01:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they can't be straight after that encounter. They are either gay or their not. In this case they are gay,their preference.I think there are several reasons for this but I'm not 100% sure. Yes this happens often.
2006-07-08 01:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the excellent for gay marriage might desire to be there for all people. Why might you want to renounce specific human beings from helping you? on the instant and bisexual human beings can actually have a feeling of fairness. gay marriage can word to bisexuals, definately. Many bisexuals lean in direction of the same intercourse or have fallen in love with somebody of the same intercourse.
2016-12-10 06:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in bisexual but I know a lot of people do, so you could be bisexual, but not straight if you are attracted to the same sex.
2006-07-08 01:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they fall in love with the same sex, then they're not straight. They're gay or maybe bi.
2006-07-08 01:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Savor_Savvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋