Sometimes when this happens,it changes my mood for the rest of the day. I get so mad at myself and him. I get stares ,winks,waves and smiles from other guys but why does my guy still doesnt keep his eyes on me?
2006-07-08 00:53:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks for all the ans n comments that kept comin. I appreciate em' .well im coping with this problem and im trying my best to just let it off my mind and not get to worked out due to this.
2006-07-08 01:04:14 · update #1
Don't try fighting fire with fire....The thing you have to realize is that 99.9 % of the guys you will ever meet in your life aside from your relatives will look at you in a sexual way. I know that guys look at my girlfriend and I used to get upset but then I realized it that they can't really help it. She is hot....as im sure you are...so the thing you should know is that your boyfriend has chosen you because he likes you more then just on the basis of physical looks..he likes who you are as a person...and you have to stop worrying about if he looks at other girls...don't let him know that it bothers you. Some guys just do it to get a reaction out of you. Tell him you don't care if he looks at other girls because if he is dumb enough to leave you for one of them then its his loss...
2006-07-08 01:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do not. In the heart of my heart I am convinced that he loves me. Especially because I know very well that I am certainly pretty but , as Shakespeare said 'beauruy lies in the eyes of the belowed.' He not only looks at the passers by and teases me praising somebody. I not only get angry or defected but I also join him in the praise.If he is teasing he is crestfallen and has his frustration out by saying,' Oh, I thought that you have a better IQ. I just wanted to tease you.' And there ends the matter. Once you have accepted a man accept him completely as he is .The Hindu ideal of being together through the next sevel lives, though a little far-fetched is a good working hypothesis for mutual relations.
2006-07-08 08:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try staring at some guys and see how he feels. Make sure they are nicely buffed and handsome as hell he'll get so mad and stop. Thats what I did. Most of the ones that do it are insecure and want you to be the same way.
2006-07-08 07:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I think its a man thing and yet the girls can sometimes be so darn tarty and ugly. Just give him a taste of his medicine. Let him see you looking at the handsome bloke passing by who has his eyes on you. turn your head a little as if to follow him. That will get him rolling. It worked for me
2006-07-08 07:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and imagine how you would feel if your guy got angry, moody and paranoid just because you got attention. You'd think he was a jerk wouldn't you? Hmm?
Men only stop looking at other women after they are dead. It doesn't mean anything and doesn't have anything to do with looks. You need to address this problem before you drive him away.
2006-07-08 08:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Darling. Looking to other girl or other boy does not mean you intend to go
out with. Some actions by a girl or a boy, make one look them without any special intention.
God bless you.
2006-07-08 08:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no insult. All guys do it.
I looked at a girl when my wife and I were just dating.
She elbowed me.
I told her that "It is ok to read the menu as long as you don't order."
She said that "You wouldn't be reading the menu if you weren't hungry." LOL
Keep your confidence. You sound very nice and conscientious.
2006-07-08 07:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are not prettier, you should not be jealous. Sometimes when I see a nice looking human, I look also! It's not that he wants to "be with that girl" so to say... maybe he's just looking at Gods art. ;)
2006-07-08 07:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Patti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a girl it's normal you want to be the prettiest for him.... but you cannot forbid him not to watch other girls, cuz he will become tense whenever he is with you, thinking that you're bothered for that.
give him more space, let him watch other girls (i don't mean flirting with other girls) and he'll see that you have confidence in him and appreciate that.
2006-07-08 07:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well this is life but look arnt everything theres more to that the personality matters more and you should know how to play by the dating rules
2006-07-08 07:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋