how to mend my heart as the married man I was with for a year left me and we had a baby, told me i was the 1?
he told me i was the woman of his life, his soulmate, his everything, that he couldn't leave without me and then left me shortly after i gave birth to our son....went back to his family. his kids are teenagers so i am sure they are old enough to understand..but he is gone and has no interest in our child. i just don't understand
2006-07-07 23:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by lamarthe6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how to mend my heart as the married man I was with for a year left me and we had a baby, told me i was the 1?
he told me i was the woman of his life, his soulmate, his everything, that he couldn't leave without me and then left me shortly after i gave birth to our son....went back to his family. his kids are teenagers so i am sure they are old enough to understand..but he is gone and has no interest in our child. i just don't understand.
i know i shouldn't gone for it but i just believed we were really in love...
2006-07-09 04:22:45 · update #1
its hard to mend a broken heart but you have a beautiful child to love and raise even if the father doesnt want anything to do with the child remember you can still get child support and your child deserves that much/ it takes two people to be in relationship and he is at fault just as much as you are/ i hope you find happiness
2006-07-08 00:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry to hear, but hun married men who cheat, are dogs and will always be dogs...they hardly ever leave their families...they just tell u what u want to hear so the can get what they want...don't worry about him, take care of u and ur son, and someday u will find the right one. stay away from married ones, as u already know the kind of pain they can cause...good luck to u and ur son....
2006-07-08 07:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have gotten involved that deeply with a married man, move on...Think of how his wife felt while you were having an affair with her husband? Move on.
2006-07-08 07:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by TL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone who goes with a married man deserves all thats coming i just feel bad there's a baby involved .if he was my husband i'd be telling u about karma although if he was i'd never take him back if u cheat once chances r you'll do it again
2006-07-08 07:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Del's wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, this is hard but, he didnt want another family, jus u, a woman to make him feel 22 again
2006-07-08 07:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me
2006-07-08 07:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to understand him with ur feelings n take the help of his family mambers they can help u out
2006-07-08 07:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by sundeep2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you what you wanted to hear.
you gave him the reward of sex.
suck it up.
2006-07-08 07:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk you are better off without him.
2006-07-08 07:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋