I have a gd friend seens i was primary 3 with her till sec one(now).But....some friends tells me that i should not befriend her as she offen scolds mi....even though i did nothing wrong.....but sometimes she is quite kind to me...
2006-07-07 23:13:51 · 9 answers · asked by sueann1993 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dear friend!
a Friend is someone that can only be accepted as a whole, a complete personality, a complete person , with all his positive and negative points.
if you befriend a person, you will have to accept her with all her faults and good things. It is simply impossible to befriend a person's positive points and leave out the faults.
and when deciding on a friendship you need to do a little maths!
just add all the plus things and subtract all the bad things, and if the answer is a negative value forget the person, but if the answer is a positive value , bingo ! you have got yourself a friend !
and when you have a friend whose bad points are also in your mind , then it is easier for you to endure them as you have already taken them for granted!
keep smiling!
2006-07-07 23:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mohummad Ali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to listen to your friends. They are obviously trying to break your friendship. If you think that your best friend is nice, and she didn't go too far, you should still befriend with her. Most importantly, if you still want her to be your friend.
Some people's character is like your best friend. They are bossy and they often scold others for no reason. But, if you accept them for who they are, you may just find them nice, friendly and caring. In other word, great.
2006-07-08 06:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by I don't care anymore. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her.. Maybe the people who tell you those things about her are not trustable.Try to talk about it with her and you will understand from her reaction. If you realise she is hiding something or doesn't telling you the truth then move on. Friends are supposed to be close to you and be there for you, if this girl does the opposite then she does;nt really worth your time..
Good luck =D
2006-07-08 06:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean sometimes she is quite kind to you? Is she always mean to you? Talk to her & tell her about your feelings. If she is a good friend then she will listen to you. Tell her that she is hurting you. Hopefully she will understand & try to change her attitude towards you if not then it's up to you... Don't let what others think of her influence you.
2006-07-08 06:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by irish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talkin 2 her......tell her dat she should stop scoldings u...... n tell her how u feel about it...... if she's unreasonable then give her a taste of her own medicine..... if she still doesn't listen den make new frnds n treat her like a normal frnd......maybe she has other probs n removes her frustration on u.....
2006-07-08 06:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were dating Sybil (the lady with 7 different personalities)
2006-07-08 06:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. If she is cool, then befriend her
2006-07-08 06:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her , she is a garbage!
2006-07-08 06:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u should
2006-07-08 06:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋