how can i change my mind set?

Question

i mean change my reactions toward things (attitude)
i want a better responding to what i face in my life, it does not matter how bad it is the matter is how i respond to it....

Answer 1

You must first understand that you are making the choice to allow yourself to get upset.

That is right !!! you choose to get mad, and you could choose to be calm and figure out a rational way to handle each situation.

When someone calls you a name you choose to:
A) Walk away and ignore them
B) Politely ask them to stop
C) Call them a name back
D) Get mad and have an argument

See you do have choices on how you act...

Answer 2

Ypu could try delaying any formation of a judgement on a situation until you think it over, say overnight. Not easy to do at first, but the additional unconscious processing may add some insight.

I'd also recommend that you go out of your way to read/listen to opinions which you disagree with. This could benefit you by widening your tolerance of things you ordinarily oppose.

Answer 3

"This Is The Easiest, Most Certain Way To Make Lightning Fast Changes In How You Think, Feel & Act"

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When you have the same core thought & belief patterns as people who are successful - even the best in the world - at something, you will feel how they feel, do what they do and you will get the same 'outer' results that they do...

Answer 4

enable him comprehend he's being unfavorable, he may not also be conscious of it. next time he begins asserting such issues as that, reply with asserting some thing like, "you comprehend, it bothers me when I continually hear you communicate negatively like that because it variety of feels like you're nevertheless disillusioned about (although befell to him)." it's going to spark a communique, yet do not enable it develop into him wondering that you're accussing him of a few thing. make certain the most concentration is on him shifting on and noticing each and every of the reliable issues he has on the instant and letting him comprehend you want him to come across a thanks to be happier about issues. If the communique is going properly, you should possibly attempt to point some variety of counciling to assist him placed his unfavorable emotions to relax.

Answer 5

Well, you could try not responding emotionally to a situation. You could take the time to think your response through, then establish how you feel.

Answer 6

well, being a more proactive person than a reactive person is easier said than done. i have gone through this stage last year, and i learned that you should first start and realize what it is that causes you to react in a way that you do not like. go deep in and find what is really ailing you... do that and you will be who you want to be.

Answer 7

You will be surprised to know that the Greek word for "changing of mindset" is used many times in the bible. It is translated into English as "repent". But before you think to repent is to stop doing wrong, read on..

When man was created by God, he was created with no consciousness of good and evil. God also created man with a free choice.

God wanted to be good to man by grace, which means unmerited or undeserved favor. God wanted to bless man apart from what he does. God does not want man to know what is good and evil so that whatever man does, he is not conscious that he is too evil or not good enough for God's goodness.

But God is Holy, being full of justice and righteousness, and cannot be good to man when he does evil or sin, though man does not know it. In fact, His completely just nature demands that He punish man for all sins.

Since He is also Love, He did the most awesome thing as our Creator - He sacrificed His Son Jesus, the Lamb of God, to take all the punishments of all the sins of the world, even before creating the world. That is why the bible says Jesus is the Lamb slain before the foundation of the world. This is the GOSPEL (the good news). I believe this is the event recorded in Gen 1:3 as "Let there be light". Jesus is the Light. Notice this happened before anything was created, even before the physical light we know as the sun, moon and stars, which were created on the fourth day. I believe the creation happened outside of time (which is what we know as eternity). I believe time only started when man fell (see below). Rom 16:16 tells us that "the mystery of the gospel was kept secret since the world began, but now made manifest" as Jesus coming physically into this world to take away our sins 2,000 years ago. 1 Pet 1:20 also says Jesus was foreordained to be slain before the foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times (2,000 years ago) for us to believe.

Back to creation's plan - with the sacrifice of Jesus in place, God is perfectly legal to not regard man's sin, including Adam's, because they have been punished on the Person of Jesus. In fact, man does not even know about Jesus' sacrifice for all his sins which happened before he was created.

That is why many theologians called this period the Dispensation of Innocence. Man does not know law, neither does he know grace.

But when Adam chose to eat from the tree of the fruit of the knowledge of good and evil, thereby having a conscience of good and evil, man fell, and God cannot continue to be good to man by grace. With the fall, man knows the law (conscience of good and evil). But man has yet to know grace (what Jesus did).

In fact, God used the Ten Commandments (the perfect representation of the knowldge of good and evil) through Moses to show that there is no way man can earn God's approval or goodness by the law. Gal 3:11 says that by the law, no one is justifified (in other words, no one is right before God). By nature, man thinks he can be right with God by his own works, so God gave the Ten Commandments, which no man can ever keep, to force him to give up trying. Gal 3:24 says the law was given to lead us to Jesus (grace).

The only way out is for man to acknowledge that Jesus has done everything to take upon Himself the punishments of all his wrongdoings - and not to relate to or be right with God by doing good and and not doing evil (by the law) but by what Jesus did (by grace).

This is why the bible says in John 1:17, grace came as a Person, Jesus Christ.

This is what Paul preached so strongly in all his epistles, for man not to be under law any more (to know good and evil, and to do good, and not do evil) but under grace (to know that Jesus has taken care of all the punishments of our evil, and even more, He has taken care of all the good God demands from us, by giving us His righteousness).

Today, salvation comes by acknowledging and believing the complete forgiveness for all our sins, past, present and future (remember, His work for us was outside time, even before we were created?), and not live with a conscience of guilt of our sins. That is why Rom 8:1 says the believer must have a "no condemnation" consciousness. And Heb 10:2 says that we should have no more consciousness of sins.

In the New Testament, we are called to repent. In the Greek, repent is the word metanoeo, which means to change our mindset - to change our mindset from law to grace. The Greek word for church is called ekklesia, which means called out ones - that is, we are called out of darkness (law) into light (grace). Recall the creation - darkness in Gen 1:2 and light in Gen 1:3.

There is so much more about this good news, but I tried to answer your question as brief and as best as I can, without being too lengthy or confusing.

I hope the above has blessed you. Feel free to email me if you want to know more.

God truly loves all of us!


Andrew
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