Why cant they love a girl for what's on the inside and not their looks? Most of these girls that guys like aren't that nice (no offense to anyone) I think that they would really fall in love with the right person if they didnt go for all the looks. What's your opinions?
2006-07-07 21:35:46 · 13 answers · asked by purtycat2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its just infatuation thats all. they like girls who are pretty but the girl is either not nice like you said ( no offence to anyone) or doesnt make the wisest choices. first, just because a girl is pretty or not does not determine how good their sex life is. second, girls do look to see if guys are cute or not but girls are more sensitive to these kinds of things. guys make it so obvious that they are looking for a prettier girls, at least girls spare guys feelings.iether way its wrong. if you feel confotable and like the person for them and not for there looks only but by tier personality and stuff you should be able to be together.and remember there is someone out there for everyone pretty or ugly,mean or nice, thick or thin.
2006-07-07 22:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we go with science, there is a theory that selection of the mate by the appreaciated looks goes with genes. Mating would normally be random, but with selection it becomes more biased. Certain traits are treated like beauty and others as uglyness. That ensures the offsprings will look good too and will have more chance to reproduce, leaving the ugly ones to die behind, ensuring more sex will happen in the species since the ones most able to spark attraction have the most offsprings.
So why we go by looks may be all in our genes(have you noticed how mostly the same guys or girls will be liked by everyone? beauty is pretty mainstreamed)...
Also, they have found that guys have their brains wired in a way that visual beauty bypass most of the brain's filters and immediatly sparks attraction, leaving the guy literally defenseless.
So even before a guy can decide if the girl will be a good match with him, he's already fallen for her. That may explain why guys fall for looks more than women.
As for the personality VS look thing, i'd say that if everyone would fall for personality instead of look, the world would be a veeery different place... and people would be much happier with their dating life =)
2006-07-07 21:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guys view...many girls are just as superficial as to their reasons for choosing one guy over another. There's a reason for the old saying...Nice guys finish last. I don't know how many times I've known a woman just out of a bad relationship and hear them say they want something different next time. But what often happens is they jump right back to the same type of guy they just left. They can't get past the initial attraction. This is by no means just an issue for the female side of the equation. There are too many superficial people on both sides. But, it's definitely not "ALL" on either side. There are sincere people out there and you just need to "honestly" look past the initial impression and find the real person. It can take time.
2006-07-07 21:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls and guys (BOTH) do go for looks first. We have to be attracted to each other to be able to "dig" each other at first. After that, what's inside counts. If it's just for sex, or whatever, of course a guy will go just for looks because he knows that there won't be a relationship or a future with that girl. Otherwise, he will look deeper into the girls personality and such.
2006-07-07 21:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just love almost every good looking girl they see(not me) usually these kind of guys always happens to have a very strong desire for sex so I think that these arre not theone who are going to look inside the person. And there are guys that are sincere these kind of guys usually look the inside of aperson
2006-07-07 21:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do girls not care on looks? I think it matters to both side you never really see a "ugly nice person" with a "hot sexy person".
Interest is what one person sees in the other person... that he wants for himself. and for them to first be "interested" in looking something has to catch his eye.
Don't worry most a**holes will end up being lonly once their looks fade away. Or they will change for an even bigger **** hole and everything will come full circle.
2006-07-07 21:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by american_stallionn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow a chick that is looking for love i thought that was a dead breed. but men look for looks because of reproduction reasons. the old way was a woman that could carry a child and give birth meaning a woman that was healthy and not sickly. but now it is did a 360 most want a sickly looking woman because of movies and culture.
2006-07-07 21:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same reason females are interested in guys looks, when they plan there children and the childs names. and why can't they love guy for what is in the inside. and not there looks. it works both ways. Why are there so many children in here.
2006-07-07 21:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like 2 show of wud their girlfriends,dats y dey want da best looking girl.
2006-07-07 21:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Branden K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because haveing a pretty woman makes sex better
2006-07-07 21:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by hoebag82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋