In 1998 a girl invaded my life. Through neglect or simple laziness, I went out with her without complaining, even though she grated with me. She idolised me. Five years on and the relationship was still there, again through my laziness to tell her how I felt (that I could tolerate her, but not love). In a moment of 100-yards stare life appraisal, I realised I should either drop her or marry her. In weakness I married her. One year on from that she's expecting. Only now has my attraction to her utterly run out.
Things are made worse by my attraction to another woman (not younger! but infinately more my soul-mate) and her attraction to me. Now I am left with a pregnant wife I don't love and another whom I worship. How can I resolve this?!? I appreciate it's all my fault - that just means it's all up to me to sort it out - laziness simply won't work...!
2006-07-07 21:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by Man_Metal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well you slept with yor wife know she pregent with your kid knot only you have to think about leaveing your wife what about your kid do you want him to be born is this world with out a father?then on top of this you are about to go to tis other women and mess her life up know i hope your wife take you to court and nail you for adultery and child surport intil it come out your ears
2006-07-07 21:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by little ace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awww...get out the violins, folks! You made your bed, now lie in it. Does this other woman whom you worship know the truth about you? You'd better tell her, see if she still feels the same after that.
2006-07-07 21:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry 2 tell u but its really ur own fault! u lead her on and u let it get way 2 far ur stuck in the marriage now u can't just leave after u got her pregnant damn u screwed up ur life just try 2 think on the bright side and look forward 2 ur baby be loyal and honest 2 ur wife no matter wat she doesn't deserve anything less
2006-07-07 21:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of your baby but leave the wife, its not fair to her or you! She deserves to find true love just as you have. It may hurt her at first but when she finds someone who really loves her she'll reliaze what she was missing!
2006-07-07 21:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by katie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and take it from there---it's gonna be hard but will be much harder staying together if you're not in love especially not good for the child---I stayed and tried to make things work with my ex husband because i had his child but it made things worse--break it to her gently "i've lost that lovin feeling" is a good way to start things
good luck
2006-07-07 21:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by karlyk721 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋