here's the thing. a person tells you, he's NOT in love with you, no, he isn't (without even you asking) but do everything to get close to you to the point of demanding from you all your time, if possible, all day and for the rest of your life, and he hates all your other friends because you want to be with them, and worse, accuse you of flirting with them in front of so many people. and when he thinks you're being unfair in dealing with him, he would begin running around telling all those people both of you knew what kind of a person you are --- a jerk/***** or whatever, and when you react and explain your side, he would think that you're a backstabber or something. what would you do with this kind of person?
2006-07-07 21:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by Inquirer 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
i am not in a relationship with him. and i made it clear that i am not interested in him. i have already said that i have my own life to live, and i don't owe him anything.
2006-07-07 21:48:01 · update #1
i badly want him to go, as in buzz off. it's so stupid really, i thought being a nice person to everybody would be the best thing to do but apparently it's giving me a terrible headache, not only that, it's terribly bothersome to have a person like him in my life.
2006-07-07 22:38:24 · update #2
Sounds like you need help getting away from him. This is serious and could become dangerous. I would discuss this with my friends and get them to help.
2006-07-07 21:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by billybetters2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you dating or in a relationship with this person? This person seems to be a little possessive. Before taking any course of action if you are in a relationship with him, let me ask you some questions. Have you tried explaining that you have your own life as well and friends are an important factor in being social? Why do you think he is accusing you of cheating or flirting? Does he not trust you? If you are in a relationship, you should trust your significant other regardless of what you may have heard or seen. Relationships are all about trust. Does this person have friends or is he social? Maybe a couple of times include him in one of your get-togethers with your friends and encourage him to get to know new people and be active. He seems to have a social problem. What I suggest to you is to invite him to hang with friends once in a while, and just help him be social with other people. Believe me, I used to be like him. If you want more help, email me at crazykeyboards2@aol.com. :)
2006-07-08 04:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by CII 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life, isn't it just so complicated? Anyway, it's kind of obvious this guy likes you a lot. He probably tells you the opposite just to convince you he doesn't. One thing you must understand is that humans, more importantly men, never really express their true emotions. This is proven by his contradictory actions, just think about it he says he doesn't love you but goes around acting like a jealous boyfriend. I think you should talk to him sympathetically and tell him what he's doing is childish. If he persists then tell him off hardcore to leave you the **** alone. Although, I feel that maybe you don't want him to go, do you?
2006-07-08 05:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by surani_ud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not want to have something like that dragging me down in my OWN life, thanks.
sounds like it's starting to work a little bit... you have to explain your side to people or him or whatever. that is causing you problems. if it's starting to cost you alot of energy and you are starting to have to fix problems all over the place you had best be punting that kind of person into the next erupting volcano.
2006-07-08 04:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, I'd drop him - as a friend, as a potential lover, as an aquaintance. You don't need that drama. They don't love you but they are completely fine with you dropping everyone and everything in favor of them. They are controlling you and abusing you. Get away now!
2006-07-08 04:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by justMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to grow up and gain some self confidence/self esteem before wasting your time.
2006-07-08 04:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by AP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! He's a control freak. Run away from this person and don't look back.
2006-07-08 04:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plsss listen to the advices given above,don't take this guy lightly.
2006-07-08 04:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by knu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to stop wasting yours and their time
2006-07-20 06:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by ram_lovely007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to stop wasting yours and their time
2006-07-08 04:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by thrillhouse13k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋