Did you get the "7 year itch" in your relationship?

Question

did you get through it o.k.?

Answer 1

Yes, after about 10 and 1/2 years of marriage. And I was totally naive to think that only I felt that way. Once I worked up the "nerve" to speak to my hubby about it we came up with a solution together that solved both of our "problems"....or in other words...we were able to help scratch each others' itch.

We part took in a lot of role playing; for example, one night we agreed to meet at a local bar but pretend like we didn't know each other...we arrived seperately and flirted with each other a ton! Also, we have made it our #1 priority to talk about and help fulfill each other's fantasies. But the best solution to our "itchies" was the absolute and blatant flirting we did with anybody and everybody. Simple flirting! Who would of thought?

To see another gorgeous woman hitting on my man was a total turn-on....to see me being hit on was a total turn on for him too! Although being a guy, he did find it a bigger turn on when women were hitting on me! Go figure. :)

Talk to your spouse about it but do not ever accuse her of making you fall out of love with her or even allow those thoughts to enter her mind. Maybe approach the subject like, "the other night when we were at ___________, I saw some guys looking you up and down and I really enjoyed watching another man appreciate the woman I fall into bed with every night" Give her permission to flirt and I think you might be pleasantly surprised to see what happens. Just remember your wedding vows and how sacred they are and how preious they should be treated. Window shopping is harmless!

Answer 2

I had itches every year, good and bad times happy and sad. I rode the rough with the smooth and battled through and with me walked from the battleground at 16 years.
I could have easily stayed within the battleground to continue with the routine but knew I was fighting a losing battle. Time proved that to me so I had to decide if I was going to stay and keep fighting where I could have lost all fight in me and become weak in trying, or get out and take on the world rather than a marriage, lol.
I gave up scratching, lmol

If a marriage is worth fighting for then keep on fighting I say. You have to weigh up the good and bad, forgive and forget and although I walked out of the battleground I gained a great friend and a stronger army than I ever had before.

Answer 3

been married 7 years and i found a boyfriend for the itch

Answer 4

yeah but it only took 3 i have been married for six and I still havent scratched it. I realy love my wife but mis the passion of a first kiss.

Answer 5

Nope.

Answer 6

yeah in our seventh year we did some really stupid things as a joint decision. it destroyed our relationship.

Anyone can give you sex. Very few can give you love--or receive your love. hang on to love.

Answer 7

NOPE