I'm 13 years old and i met this guy on myspace he's 16 ! have a boyfriend and my boyfriends sista used to date the guy that i met on myspace.my problem is that the guy on myspace became a good friend of mine and knows i'm 13 but thinks i'm fine.He told me that in the future i was only gonna get finer and dat maybe sometime in da future we mite hook up if i don't got a boyfriend.I started talking to him like 2 days ago and i know he's a nice guy cuz my b/f's sis when out wit him.Well anyways he told me he wanted to meet me somewhere so we could chill.And i panicked so i told him sometime after july would be great.Now i'm stuck going somewhere to meet him.I got a plan to take one of my friendz wit me but i'm not sure if i should tell him i'm wit her or just tell her to watch me but pretend to not know me.I also dont knw if i should go plus he said only friends cuz i have a bf but im not sure if i should go or not!!Because 1st of all hes 3 years older i have a bf and my bfs sis likes him.
2006-07-07 20:58:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just to tell ya all i ain't lookin for sex or a new boyfridn an i'm not gonna cheat on my current one.
2006-07-07 21:09:55 · update #1
I DON'T WANT SEX UNTIL I'M MARRIED I DON''T WANNA BREAKUP WIT MY BOYFRIED AND I'M NOT GONNA CHEAT ON HIM!!!
2006-07-07 21:26:45 · update #2
Since you have a boyfriend, and you don't really know this guy too well (and he's older), you should probably not get together with him alone. It sounds too much like a date. If he just wants friendship, then it should be no problem to bring your friend along - although I think the best option would be to just not go at all. Just because your bf's sister likes him doesn't mean that he's ok, and that he wouldn't come on to you in an aggressive way. You can't really know someone after talking to them for just two days.
2006-07-07 21:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mitchell 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to go meet him if you've already got a boyfriend? Unless you plan on breaking up with your bf, but i assume you're not going to tell him coz chances are your bf is not going to like it. And if you're not going to tell him, then is this guy worth you lying to your bf ? Plus he's 3 years old too, and it doesn't mean anything if your bfs sis likes him or not, it's not fine that's he so much older!!
If you're still going to meet him, then bring your friend along with you, and let him know that. If he has a problem with that, then this guy has something to hide. If he's straight up, he wouldn't mind you bringing a friend a long, does that make sense? Plus if you bring a friend along, it can keep things casual, and will be less pressure on both of you.
2006-07-07 21:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Crayon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him, but only if you really want to. You don't have to. If you decide to, you do need to take safety measures. Make sure you take a cell phone. Tell your parents and friends where you are going. Meet in a public place, like a mall, a place that you have been before and are familiar with. Don't go somewhere else and don't get into his car the first day you meet.
2006-07-07 21:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well, first of all, what's the rush? no need to go off and meet some guy. take a deep breath, think, talk to your friends some more about it. chances are if you don't think you should go, then you should not go. besides, it's like 4:00 am?! no way!! he said, "just friends" which means "no sex". well, i certainly hope you are not sexually active at 13 but lets be realistic, take a shower and get some sleep and chat tomorrow. if you are having sex at your age then you need to use condoms every time and have a good talk with your mom about it (believe me she knows more about sex than you do). anyway, boys at age 16 think about sex like 23 hours a day but know very little about it at all. take up guitar, basketball, chess, or dancing and worry about boys when you turn 16 yourself, ok!?!?
2006-07-07 21:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by TheNewCreationist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not stuck doing anything with him, young lady, and he's definitely not going to have ice cream in mind if he's telling you how fine you are at this age! Sex is on his mind and you are too young to do that. He'll use you and dump you, so don't meet him (especially alone!!). You already have a boyfriend, so concentrate on that--and if his sis likes this guy and knew him first, it could cause problems with you two if you meet him like this. Don't do it, keep yourself safe. Never meet anyone in person that you've met on the internet unless your parents are with you! Stay safe. ♥
2006-07-07 21:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by save_up_your_tears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 20:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to think and do things like that. Seriously bear in mind that your main duty at this age is to study. You should pay attention for your future by hard study not talking love with a teen guy.
2006-07-07 21:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!!! The only thing that a 16 year old wants with a 13 year old is to have sex with her then run around and tell everyone that she's a sl*t and a wh*re. You are better than that, you deserve better than that and he's a horndog.
2006-07-07 21:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion NO. But take some time to think and do what you feel is right for you. If you do decide to go with this new guy be sure and break up with the old one first... less pain for him.
And how good of friends are you with your currnet guy's sister? Is this new guy worth loosing her over?
2006-07-07 21:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are getting into something way too complicated. why are you meeting? if it's just friendship, he shouldn't care that you brought another friend. if it's for more than friendship, you shouldn't be doing it, coz you're cheating on your bf. and yeah, take a friend. just in case.
2006-07-07 21:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋