2006-07-07 20:48:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, yes, but there's a trick to it.
The guy has to be assertive(which is sexy you know) and still come across as a gentleman.
No trashy stuff. No cussing or starting arguments.
He must be cool, calm and collected at all times. Never rattled.
He walks away with a grin. Not an obnoxious laugh.
He shows he is fearless by NOT getting over excited and out of control. Not waving his arms around in the air.
It';s very embarrassing to be seen with a guy who acts like he's trying to PROVE something.
THAT, only makes him look insecure, immature and stupid.
When it comes to sex, we like a guy that doesn't act nervous. We want to be touched as if we were made out of fine china.
Jumping on a girls bones is NOT what we mean when we say, "We like assertive guys."
The guy not understanding the word "NO', would be assertive but really lame.
2006-07-07 21:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, assertive is good to a point. I like a guy who knows what he wants. However, being assertive does not mean to make all the decisions for a person.
2006-07-08 03:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by questionMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how assertive and the intention of the assertive actions.. we or i can read through most of it if it is cheap and for a little bump and grind; so glad i got to quote that.
2006-07-08 04:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by some 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me..it's okay 'coz it's only a date..well..in some instances there's a time that you have to tell the guy about his assertiveness or else maybe the relationship won't work.you have to ACCEPT whatever the guy has...if and only if i accepted him to be my date..anyway..i could date that kind of guy 'coz i can put up with that..
2006-07-08 04:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Janne Chrystyl V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes...depends on HOW assertive you are....if you try to make moves on me that are unwanted im gonna end the date within a heart beat...because morally i dont do anything on dates that involves "getting in bed" with someone....and if i feel that someone is violating my morals then they arent worth the weight
2006-07-08 03:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋