My boyfriend broke up with his girlfriend of one year for me. He cheated on her more than once but never with me. We've been dating for two months now and I still haven't had sex with him. He says that he's OK with the fact that I don't want to but face it, how many guys REALLY are? I've also recently heard that he's been having sex with his ex up to five times a week ever since they broke up. I like him so much and we've been best friends for two years so it makes this even harder. I want to trust him but I've been hurt a lot and don't know if I can.
2006-07-07 20:48:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U urself r doubtful to continue with him since u find him at the gaining hand each time u look at him ?
U should keepurself at the safest place away from ppl like him?
He seems quite smart to make girls go blind for him ?He is a womaniser ? Open ur eyes , WAKE UP.
HE JUST LOVES HIMSELF AND NOBODY ELSE.
U r lucky to havea chance to save urself ., run away.He is addictive and bad 4 ur emtional and mental health .girl. Believe me.
2006-07-07 21:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by dolly 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
he has cheated in the past, I would think he is cheating again. It is not worth your time or energy, and do not give away your power by staying with someone you do not trust. How old are you? If you feel insecure about him, I would jester to say you maybe having feelings of insecurity with-in yourself. Be sure to know who you are and what you want in life. Be honest with yourself, take time to learn of the things you want in life and if you really want to deal with a cheater?
2006-07-08 04:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me say that guys want the sex, MEN are willing to wait. If your guy cheated on his girlfriend to be with you, he will do it again, especially if she is having sex with him. Dump him, he does not respect you and he never will. If he cheated once, he will cheat again. Don't give into him for sex, because he will cheat on you when he gets tired of being with you, as you know, he left his ladt girlfriend for you, and is possibly having sex with her now when he is with you. He is a dog, and gives all of us men a bad name.
2006-07-08 04:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. The fact that you are even asking the question should alone tell you the answer. You know you can't trust him. Let him go, you'll find better.
2006-07-08 03:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by princesszoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't trust him.
If he cheated on her he will cheat on you.
The rest of it is just the same old same ole. Cheaters cheat. Liars lie. Thieves steal.
Move on.
2006-07-08 03:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Temple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. What do you think is best? You know the situation better than anyone here does.
2006-07-08 03:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to the ex,because she won´t care if she hurts you.Just ask her to tell the truth and not to tell your boyfriend.
2006-07-08 04:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by christiana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but once a cheater always a cheater!!
2006-07-08 03:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by sam_keane_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav given him a chance and he couldn't prove himself.... though u luv dat person u hav to let go of them sometimes..... what is da point being his girlfriend when he cheated so many times.....???? it will be hard to leave in da first but you'll get better as time passes........be strong in your decisions.....
2006-07-08 04:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by archana r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy, he is a waste of space.
If you don't want to get hurt, do it now.
You know what you must do.
2006-07-08 04:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by PUINSAI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋