the only way for her to have this women is to leave the kids as she tried to move her in the kids said know but did it away , whats make women do that, and no they was no voilence in the house
2006-07-07 20:12:48 · 17 answers · asked by guy r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously she loves this woman deeply but deserting her children for her doesn't make her a very good person (or mother). If she is willing to just leave them with her ex-boyfriend they're probably better off with him than with her anyway.
2006-07-07 20:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifaery 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really sorry you've had such a tough time. It just shows that she is too selfish to be a good mother or girlfriend. make sure you give the kids all the love they need as they will be feeling very insecure and abandoned. It will be hard for you but the kids must come first.
2006-07-07 20:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by emma r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, i imagine that you're very selfish and also you're in ordinary words searching on your own merely excellent pastimes, not your children or spouse. you've been dishonest on your spouse because the very beginning...i imagine so you might save your relatives any extra discomfort and laid low with all of this lower backward and forward and merely go away. I strongly advise that you be a guy and merely bypass formally report for a divorce. You of route do not care about this marriage and opt to this element human beings like you're unmarried.
2016-11-01 10:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody once told me that sex is addictive and that chemical addiction to the endorphins can be so addictive that you neglect EVERYTHING else in your life to seek that addiction at every turn...
This is no different to a man who would leave his wife and child to seek the arms of another woman... Or a woman who leaves her children with a babysitter and goes abroad for a man...
Some people are more prone to this addiction than others... And rather than compromise, they drop everything and go...
2006-07-07 21:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman are a determined species...and once there mind is made up.they are selfish...and will hurt anyone to get there own way...even there own children!im sorry to hear of this buddy...i know someone whos going through the same..its not fair on the kids...and i believe there was no violence..your ex probably made you feel it was all your fault to...she was just clutching at straws to cover for her own guilt...the kids lose here im afraid....but good guys get through things like this...and im sure you will...all the best mate..take care
2006-07-07 21:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea what would posses a person to do that! u should take care of them even if your not the father care for the kids and they will have more respect for u. because u didn't drop them like their own mother did the one person who is meant to be there no matter what but she just dropped them! i really feel for u and the kids!
all the best! i'm here to talk if u need it!
2006-07-07 21:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this person say suppressed their sexuality for so long that they ae rebelling and panicking and their behaviour will seem most inappropriate to others. ultimately we have to be true to ourself and when we feel we have sacrificed so much much we revolt and act out quite selfishly. once the person can accept themself again they calm down and start to resolve themself to their new life. men can do this too. a friend of mine waited until his kids had grown before 'coming out' and then got divorced and lived with his lover. it always hurts the ex and the kids get a bit mixed up but it teaches them to follow their heart.
2006-07-07 20:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
belive it or not some women are just to selfish and are unable to look after any other person then their self's
some women just wasn't born with a maternal side.and to
pick a relationship over your child /children is absolutly
discussting and i hope she feels nothing but shame for the rest of her life.
MOTHER SHOULD BE THE NAME FOR GOD ON THE
LIPS OF CHILDREN EVERY WHERE
2006-07-07 20:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by sweareryellow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to aspects
Childeren= Screwed up priorities. probably was a unwed young monther (under 30), or married befoer 30 and never go the wildness out.
BOyfriend= she found a sucker to dump them on..
2006-07-07 20:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by neochakan240 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a lesbian i can understand her having "needs", but to leave your children ..... sorry i think that's taking things way to far.
Obviously i dont know all the facts, but it sounds like she's putting her own needs before that of her family.
That's a big thumbs down in my book (Boo-Hiss)!!
JJ.
2006-07-07 20:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by just_jen2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋