What is it about the male ego, that causes a man to feel he must make a women believe his penis is overly big?

Question

I find that as a women , I run into men that seem to feel they need me to believe there penis is large and it something I could never live without . They are the best on god green earth. Is it male insecuritys on there size that cause them to act in such a fashion, or is it there fear of not being good enought or matching up to what she may have had in the past that cause him to act the way he does? I as a women would really like to know what make men do and act the way they do when it comes to sex and there orgin. Rater then focusing on there size, there minds should be thinking about how am i going to please her with what i do have!

Answer 1

men like to make women think that they are gods gift to women on this matter as well men also like to brag to there buddies about women as well the ones who men call easy . and only care about pleasing there selves as well.not the woman. my opion?

Answer 2

If it's true that the men you're dating sooner or later turn the conversation to the size of their penis, you might want to change your appearance or whatever it is you're doing in order to attract someone of better breeding. It may be that there's something about you yourself that evinces such comments from men who 1) find you largely of sexual interest only or 2) you are drawn to men of a certain type who cannot discuss things with you on an intellectual level but dwell instead on the physical. Personally, I don't ever recall dating someone in which the conversation was reduced to such a base point. If the conversation is good, the sex is usually good, too. Good luck.

Answer 3

You've said it all; or most of it, anyway. Men should be concentrating on what's pleasing to a woman. But some men think that size is something that is important to all women. You know it's not, I know it's not; but some men don't know it's not. In my experience--which is fairly extensive and representative, I humbly state--women just don't think of size, but they do appreciate what you can do with you penis regardless of it's size. Most men actually are an average size, which is more than enough for any woman. I guess both sexes were just made that way to complement each other in size. So, keep looking for a guy who's not hung up on how he's hung, and find one who wants to use what he's got to the best of his ability.

Answer 4

I really don't know why some men feel the need go on about what a big thingy they have , I don't think bigger is always better. I've read statistics that say that the average vagina is only 6 to 8 inches deep and we all know just how much room there is in a girls mouth. So for all you laides out there , if some guy said he was packing 12 inches of meat , would you really want to go down on that ?

Answer 5

We have a hard time for a short period because we are always wondering if girls have a bottom. I don't mean the fleshy feel good place at the rear, I mean a bottom, as in a well. Our theory is, that the answer to a woman's questions is at the bottom, so we ask, simply for a little cooperation, before we plunge into the dark?

"The most important thing in any relationship is not what you get but what you give." Eleanor Roosevelt

Answer 6

First off, I'd never hit it with you simply because I'm in a finalizing point where I'm transitioning from "just friends" to "her boyfriend" with my girl. Now that that's clear, I shall continue.

First off, that's all us men percieve that women want. We're very visual/sensory-based beings, and women pursue the meaning of everything (like we'll focus on the physical feeling of sex, how she looks and the size of her ta-tas vs. the emotions and psychological meaning behind sex, and looks can go to hell unless he's really, really ugly. Hell, I'm ugly and everyone I've been with don't mind).

With that said, we would think women like big ***** just like we like their blouse buddies, but for women, they're highly visible items and stay that way (aroused or not); they create a nice little bulge you can't hide unless you wear several heavy jackets, and extra points go out to her if she wears something low-cut/V-cut.

Guys, on the other hand, unless we're wearing Speedos on the beach, is something that is usually not obvious and could be even mistaken for a crease in the pants we're wearing, and could actually vary from having a weenie tot/ginormous 9" beast, or 4" / 4 1/2" (key: unaroused / aroused), which does create an ambiguation of real size.

With, again, the fact that us guys think women fixate on Mr. Happy, plus the fact we think all women want sex (well it's true, but women have to think they're socially barred from being horny and always plays some form of "hard-to-get" when it comes to 'nookie'), so some guys would start describing it until she gives in, but that's just ignorance (although I usually say that I know how to find the G-spot and bring a heavy orgasm works), since even the most confident of men do it.

Also, us men tend to rule ourselves around possesions, like the house, the car, or in this case, tool (no, I'm not talking about our Stanley GripMax adjustable locking wrench---that's still cool--to other guys, or our prized 10,000 Days CD either), so it's a social status, but we don't talk about/flaunt it to other guys either because of our fear of being labeled gay (same way with a woman's "slut factor", we both work equally hard to protect each respective reputation).

As for sex, hell, there's no society bar to us saying we had sex with 3 women in 1 night, 2 of which at the same time, so for us to like sex is viewed as "no big deal", so we continue to walk, talk and breathe sex as part of our lives and would feel devestated by the lack of sex, for which the 2 basic wants of men are food and sex too.

When it does take place though, men would want to reassure that the women gets hers, even if it means to play hell for her to get it, which we will do anyhing possible to make sure our woman is pleased before we talk for 2 minutes and go on to dreaming about a hoagie sub.... I'd be lost for a good few hours if there was a prime rib sandwich at the end of the bed after rocking her world and turning it upside down :-)

Answer 7

I agree, and so do most men.
If we have a standard-issue "six-shooter", that's enough for men and women.

As far as pleasing women, it is not our job to do anything more than allow the woman to find what she wants, and to tell us. We cannot read minds. Some women prefer oral gratification, to penile.

We have only two possible deficiencies, mechanically: failure to erect; and premature ejaculation.

The other failures of us men involve being in a hurry--insufficient foreplay and afterplay.

Answer 8

Well missy, blame it on evolution, similar to a womens need for breast augmentation,both of which ingrained in men & women respectively, evolutionarily very attractive traits, serve one very basic purpose of our and in general all life ...better chance of finding a mate for propagating life...its just a survival and procreation adaptation.... what appears to you as banal and irksome has a deeper purpose to it...believe it or not..let me say like it or not.....all life will do anything possible nomatter how weird to appeal to the opposite sex....

Answer 9

It is not, necessarily, the women that forward this idea. It is more the male side - "I'm bigger/stronger/faster/better batter/better basketballer/better golfer/better speller that fosters it.
I believe that males are genetically more competitive - natural selection, and all that - and in today's world, where duels to the death are discouraged, the only thing we have left to believe in is penis size (real or imagined) - because that is what we project unto the females of the species.

Answer 10

It's a fear of you going back to some one you've had or not being able to take care of you like we might think you want. We will always want to take care of you that is our nature. Human beings are animals just like a mother takes care of her child. Gotta love karma-sutra. Gets you off without even having intercourse if you know truly what your doing..