I called my fiance at 12:30 am and he did not answer his phone. I left a message and he did not call back. I was at my girlfriends house and I decided to call my fiance on my friends phone (since I have been having trust problems with my fiance.)
I called him on her phone at 1:30 am and HE ANSWERED HIS PHONE!!!!
Then he called my phone a couple minutes later and told me that he was asleep!!!
Is this messed up? What should I do?
2006-07-07 19:19:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
u better think abot it......... leave him or talk things out..... just follow ur feel
2006-07-07 19:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Andy Heckmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could very well have been asleep and after the third call within an hour, decided that these calls won't stop unless he gets up. Could this have possibly happened??? The only way you'd know for sure is if you had a security camera in his bedroom, which hopefully you don't. But if you're constantly calling him and checking up on him, you have trust issues and are not ready to get married...especially to this man.
2006-07-08 07:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you find it interesting that he picked up the phone only when he thought it was your girlfriend calling? And that he then called you, and lied to you about having been asleep?
If you have trust issues, (and maybe with good reason) he shouldn't even be your fiance` until you are able to resolve whatever problems are between
the two of you. Try starting with that phone call.
Good Luck~*
2006-07-08 02:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been having trust issues with your fiance.....RUN!!...as fast as you can. This is your wake up call. An engagement is a preview of what your marriage will be like. If the relationship isn't good now...........it won't be later.
2006-07-08 02:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by txholdemgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hell trying to figure out if you can trust someone or not. Just figure out if he is worth your time before you turn him from a fiance into a husband.
2006-07-08 02:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens all the time, in this case u have to take ur blinders off and just accept that as of right now he is on something else and he is just not into u anymore, dont fool ur self.
2006-07-08 02:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by true star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh heeeel no!!!! I'm sorry but why werent you like WTF!!??? lol but thats just me. I think you should straight up ask him if hes got a thing for your friend. Because i guess it could be a mistake. Like, maybe he didn't hear his phone those times you called his phone but turned over in bed when you called from your friends phone.... I guess? lol thats a tough one
2006-07-08 02:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely suspicious. But I have trust issues.
2006-07-08 02:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by funigyrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T MARRY HIM!!!!!!!!! It sounds like he was screening his calls. It also sounds as if he is interested in more people than you. BREAK IT OFF! he just sounds like a complete player, definatly not ready to be committed.
2006-07-08 05:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by tommyslili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahahhahaa. lmao. geezzzzzzzzzzz.
hmmmmm. wow. I need to Google this one.
brb.
save my seat.
google says:. Fix him dinner and evertingy will be peachy.
Poof~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
2006-07-08 03:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes your friend. Dump him.
2006-07-08 03:44:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋