i am 14 (almost 2 monre weeks). I really want a boyfriend i have never had one and all of my friends have. i am short (family genetics i am taller than my grandma) i am 1 more inch and i will be 5 ft. i am kinda not a lot over weight im sorta like a stub how can i meet guys.
2006-07-07 19:10:38 · 17 answers · asked by meme 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
If you are that desperate, ask out as many guys as you can. I can almost guarantee that u'll get a guy to go out with you (or at least sleep with you if that's what you want). But if you want a GOOD bf, then you need to just take your time and wait. Many of the guys your age are not mature enough to want a real relationship and just want to get into girls' pants. Don't worry, there is nothing wrong with you (your height and weight are perfectly fine). Forget about what your friends have, it is much more important that you find the right guy than one to show off and who would dump you as soon as he gets/ or finds out that he can't get what he wants. If you choose the wrong kind of guy, you won't get anything good out of the relationship and he'll just make you feel even more undesirable.
2006-07-07 19:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Trying To Be Helpful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I was 14! That was only 3 years ago but yea. Having a boyfriend isn't that great! Unless you find someone who really cares about you. Guys can be really evil! I've had 28 boyfriends and now I'm engaged, so I know about boyfriends. Don't think too much about it. It'll make you seen desperate and most guys don't like that, and some will see it as a weakness and take advantage of it. So don't worry. I have a friend that's almost 18 and never had a boyfriend! You'll get a boyfriend!
2006-07-07 19:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that now you desperately want a boyfriend, but you are only 13. There is still so much time left to bother yourself with the drama of boys. Focus on things like your friends, hobbies, and family. Concerning your height and weight and whatever else you are self-conscious about, don't let it bother you. I have been incredibly tall my entire life; I always tower over all my friends and, yep, all the boys. Can you guess what I've always been concerned about? You will find a boy when the time is right who likes you even if you are short, I promise!
2006-07-07 19:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by BrownBound 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, having a boyfriend is not all it's cracked up to be...you have to be there everytime he calls, you have to be ready when he wants to go out, you have to understand when he goes out and you don't, you have to understand when his friends hate you or you hate them....YIKES, it's too much work at 40 let alone at 14.
All my boyfriends started out as friends, and after we broke up we are all still friends, we still to this day send cards and letters once in a while.
You really need to just want to be friends and the boy part will follow...Trust me.....
Don't worry about your height, that won't make a difference once you have friends and your weight won't matter much either, you have to be a friend to have a friend.
Try it, at least for 6 months and see if it makes a difference in getting guys attention.
Sometimes guys have this little sence thing that goes off when they feel that a girl is wanting a relationship....and it won't let them get any closer than saying hello. Turn off the need to have a boyfriend and turn on the need to have friends....you will see a difference!
2006-07-07 19:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, why do you want a boyfriend at such a young age? Is it because of peer presure? I did not have any boyfriend until I was 21. Boys at around your age are immature. Older guys (if they really care about you) will not want to go into any relationship with you. Why not take this opportunity to loss some weight, wait and search for a while before going into any relationship. You are still so young, you've got plenty of chances.
2006-07-07 19:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by water bottle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And.... I want a Ferrari, yacht, and a paid trip to Hawaii.
Have some patience, enjoy what you have now, and keep your eyes open for the right opportunity. Life is what you make it.
If you can't be happy without "a boyfriend" or even a yacht, etc., you will most likely not be happy with one. You need to find fulfillment and joy in your own self and life first. Smile, chin up, and stay positive.
; )
2006-07-07 19:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by boxergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can meet guy at school that is the best way or the mall…. Any places where guys kick it. You should wait until your at least 16 to have b/f. my little sister is 14 she not in a hurry to get a b/f. At your age guys come and go, if they’re with you don’t give them what they want.
2006-07-07 19:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ceon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt. don't go muy hota here, but just flirt. I'm shorter than you and i'm older than you and i've had several boyfriends so don't blame your height. some guys like smaller girls. it makes them feel superior. dont be in such a rush. i'll tell you what i told another girl who asked the same question. dont get a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. then you're just waisting your time devoted to a guy you don't like when you could be flirting with many guys who you do like. don't rush things and let things fall into place themselves.
good luck.
2006-07-07 19:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sign in 2 my space Pliny of boyz fine 1'z on there
2006-07-07 19:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. You're really young still, boys your age are stupid and don't understand girls AT ALL. Wait a little while...it's worth it ;)
Lola & Giselle
2006-07-07 19:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lola and Giselle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋