look, i really like this guy... and i found out he likes me back. but my best friend just broke up, and she REALLY liked him. but she's getting over him and she knows we like eachother. she keeps warning me to say no to him if he asks me out and i'm pretty sure he is soon. but i don't know what to do... she says that he's a horrible bf and he'll want to go really far. let me just say i am not the kind of teen that just... well... lets just say i havent even had my 1st kiss yet.. but he's really not a bad guy like that. he's nice.. talented and extremely funny. but im just confused... any advice?
2006-07-07 18:52:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
listen to your heart. do what makes you happy. either way you will regret something. you could of met the guy of your dreams but you didn't go out with him and not have another oportunity or you could go out with him and have your friend be mad at you for a little while and she will forgive you if shes a true friend
2006-07-07 19:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to go out with your friends Ex-boyfriends. If you value your friendship at all you will not let a guy that will not be around for long come between you two.
2006-07-08 02:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though your friend may be sad if you say yes, you would be even more sad if you said no. It should be your decision what you do and who you do or don't go out with. If you do say yes to this guy, then you should probably apologize to your friend. =]
"Even though your heart is on the LEFT side, it always makes the RIGHT decision."
2006-07-08 10:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by AB &♥; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough situation, but realize how guys are... does he know that you are a virgin? because 99% of the time guys are thinking of sex, and if he is aware that you are a virgin he is going to jump at the opportunity to be your first. and being that it's your friend's ex, it may not be the best idea to start dating him, shes telling you a bunch of bad things about him which kind of shows that she may be jealous and it will only cause drama.
2006-07-08 02:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by kare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is speeking from experience...listen to her. Every relationship is different and every couple has a different chemistry, but she's been down that road and I would listen to her. He was probably really nice and charming to her when they first went out too.
2006-07-08 01:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ellen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's really ur frend, she wont care. she should want you to have makes you happy. just go for it. she is not a true friend. if she is, all she will do is get upset and then get over it. if you like eachother, then you should be together.
2006-07-08 01:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how i was.u know what i ended up saying yes to him when he asked me to be his gf.we have now been together for 9months and we're really happy!and as far as my friend goes she got over it.so just go for it, GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-08 04:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by sexy~chika69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem but it was me with him first and now i still have feelings for him i suggest that you let them bee and try protect him and your friednd or you could both lever him bee and find somkione else!!! and if he asks you out say yous lesbian thaqt should fix it!!!
2006-07-08 02:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by ĴỂņŇỴ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him then go for it but like ur firend said he is a bad person i bet she is just saying that because she liked him and she knows that he likes u just got for it
2006-07-08 02:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by izturis1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him then there is no harm in giving a try with this guy.go a head
2006-07-08 02:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by sunanda v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋