what do you do when you love your ex and your boyfriend and want to bewith both of them?

Question

I have been with Zachary Gene Powell for about fouor and a half months. I have an incredible realtionship with him. Wiht the exception of my ex. I was with my ex for three years. I love my ex and he feels the same about me. My boyfriedn hates my ex and want to fight him. Im sorry to say this but my baby will get his butt kicked. anyway, I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex and somehow i dont feel bad, Is that wrong? I love both of them and i have told my ex how i feel about him and he refuses (or just acts like it.) to tell me anything until one night I called him and told him again. He told me not to worry aboout him and to focus on my realtionship with Zach. After all that which was about two months ago i cheated on my hot boyfriend with my ex. I went over to my ex's house the last time and he told me that he loved me to much to hurt me. I was in to deep now. I dont know what to do. I dont want to hurt Zach and for him to not trust me. Someone Please help me!!!!!!!!!!! Jessica

Answer 1

YOU need to go on Jerry Springer- this isn't public enough for you, you idiot. You already posted one lover's FULL NAME on here- REMOVE THIS QUESTION you idiot!

Answer 2

Well girl you are messed up in that head of yours, For 1 thing your EX did not mind getting a little piece of you once again and at the same time he told you to stay with Zach, where is your mind in your head or your pants ? Your EX is not worried about you, except he might not have a current girlfriend and still willing to play with you,...but you need to be honest with Zach and youself and accept the fate of whats at hand and whats dealt...Believe me cheating will only hurt you the most in the long run !.

Answer 3

Go with your HEART.
Stay with your EX If you love you ex so much too cheat on zach with him.
But it's whatever your heart says. If you feel that you are deeply in love with him, stay with him, but if you feel like it will all lead too hurt, pain, and weird situations; I would just dump both of them and save time figuring out what it is I really want. You need too think about who you are more attached too, and who all in all is a better for you, if your EX and you broke up for a bad reason, then I wouldn't go back with him only because it seems like you haven't gotten over those problems. And there is only one Mr.right, and it could back Zach, it could be your EX, or it could be neither of them. Though you don't want too spend the rest of your life single; and you don't have too. But 6 1/2 months too yourself wouldn't be such a bad thing, would it? You could get your things together and just wait until then too proceed with a relationship, who knows? you could even get back with you EX or Zach, if you even want too after honestly thinking about it. Either way, you'll find Mr.Right, I was just trying too save some heartache.
Luv,
Sarah

Answer 4

You can't have them both girl. You have to choose and you have to do it soon or you will lose them both. I have been here and its hard. I choose the boyfriend we have been together 2 1/2 years. I miss my ex-fiance and he is never far from my mind but I learned from what we did wrong and I vow to not make the same mistakes twice. The only thing that I have found to get over this was to get away from the one you are not with. DOn't call, write, see each other in person. Delete him from your life and thinking about why you are not together will also help. Good luck.

Answer 5

Just Give Em Both What They Want Keep The Whole Neighborhood Peaceful,Do Your Part For World Peace

Answer 6

Honey, it sounds like your ex is leading you on to just satisfy HIMSELF. Remember, he IS an EX for a reason. Don't let him ruin this relationship you have now!! I know it is hard to let go of people, but you have to move on! He obviously just wants to keep you on the side for a little fun...probably just wants to know he can still have you if he wants to. Don't do this to yourself!! Your boyfriend sounds like a great guy who truly loves you and WANTS to be with you. He's the keeper!!

As for the cheating, you can't change the past, but DON'T DO IT AGAIN!! It is up to YOU to decide if you want to tell your current boyfriend about the cheating....but I have a feeling your ex might tell him just to cause trouble if you don't, and it would be better for him to hear it from you than from your ex or the gossip mill. If you can't keep away from your ex, than you MUST tell your current boyfriend and give him the opportunity to move on....it is not fair to play with someone's feelings like that. One mistake is human and forgivable, but after that, you are just being thoughtless and careless....Good luck.

Answer 7

Leave them both alone, and sit back and see what happens for a couple of weeks. You'll see which one you need out of the reactions you get from them. Cut it off for two weeks with both of them, without them knowing why or how long. Just tell them you need a break, time to yourself. You will also see who loves you the most, and if they feel that they need you, or if one of them will just move on on their own. You'll see. You have to be strong enough to handle doing this though. Good luck.

Answer 8

judging from the way that your type, I'd say that you are no older than 12, am I right? Anywayz, to the point, if you are that young there is no way you can already be serious about your bf/gf relationships, it may seem normal to you and it is normal for you to have these feelings but they aren't real. You have to do a lot of maturing before you can have a real serious relationship.

Answer 9

If I was you, i would pick the one, i feel more comfortable with, have more fun with, and think you be there for each any time. But is more of a boyfriend then a friend. I know you will make the right decision.

Answer 10

You have to choose one of them. Someone is GOING to be hurt, so it might as well be your ex. Obviously if he's ur EX, you've found someone better. It doesn't matter who you pick, though, as long as you stick with ONE.

Good Luck!