He has to study in USA and I have to work in Thailand plus he is american and I am thai.SO many problems with our relationship. We have such little time with each others and I am tired of waiting but I still love him and he loves me so much. What I should deal with this?
2006-07-07 18:40:58 · 19 answers · asked by Kidnapper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If possible, I say drop the job and be with him.
If not, take a vacation together.
2006-07-07 18:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well wat i think is that u shud talk it over. if he can stay then good. if either of u cant move to one place then u should just break it off and move on. no point havin a long distance relationship. one of the two will end up havin another secret relationship. so just talk it over with him.
right now this might sound dumb but think of the future. do u think u can just sit there wait for him without datin another guy in the mean time! so think about it! if he is leavin soon, then spend a lil more time with him adn then break up. that way it wont hurt u later when u find out he is datin someone or u fall in luv with someone else in that gap!
all the best
2006-07-08 01:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by shelldugout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be close to each other, you have to spend time with together. Since that's not an option for you two, try writing to each other everyday or calling each other. If you really can't wait, follow him to USA.
2006-07-08 01:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by ladylike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of u still love each other, then there's no way a relationship can be broken. IM each other. Video call...stuff like that. Or maybe follow him to America...
2006-07-08 01:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Savor_Savvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a certain time of the "day" or "night" (I think you will have to check into the time differences for this) and make it your date time or catch up time. Text messaging on phones and e-mails work well to try to keep in touch during the day. Good luck! I wish you all the best.
2006-07-08 01:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you can, then just wait it out. this is the hardest test of your relation. just remember that long distance relations almost never work. so don't be crushed if it doesn't work out. he may cheat, you may cheat. it isn't the fault of his or your. it's just that it's a relation requires the physical need too. not just sex but a kiss, a hug, being in each others arms, even just being able to look in each others eyes.
2006-07-08 01:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by cesar g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I do not know a solution, other than one of you must give up your life and move to the others home.
2006-07-08 01:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by drummer4justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job in America and move here, it's a better country anywayz.
2006-07-08 01:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by texas0413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new BF in Thailand man :) :) Don't waste u'r time ..Good luck :) :)
2006-07-08 01:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate with him, if ya'll can't be together, letters are good, callin each other, just being open and honest and just keep the communication lines okay...
2006-07-08 01:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋