2006-07-07 18:40:19 · 9 answers · asked by stars 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Human nature, some unfulfilled need in our relationships, etc. In my happiest relationship I found others attractive, but was never actually attracted "to them", as in I wanted to be with them.
2006-07-07 18:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by heathernic_410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're, as you say, not to cheat. Never drank before you were 21?? There is, however, a much more significant difference between cheating time and cheating on someone you decided a while ago you 'care about.'
A lot of people do it these days, both male and female..but that doesn't mean that all the fish in the sea ride the same tide into land.
2006-07-07 18:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because even if you have settled down to your soul mate, and you fit perfectly together and all of that...
That doesn't keep other people from being attractive. There are plenty of smart, nice, attractive people out there who may never *quite* measure up to your one and only, but come very close.
And sometimes surpass him/her. And then you're faced with tough decisions, which are often twined up in reliion and family and kids and EVERYTHING. But when it comes down to THE decision-- don't cheat. Leave the person you're with FIRST, then go with the second. Because anything else... you will regret, someday.
2006-07-07 18:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by MOI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be wrong but it seems like you are looking for a religious answer, just by the wording of the question (sort of like you're asking why were we made that way). Well, if i was religious i would tell you its another test of faith or something, but fact is I'm not, which is why, in my opinion, its the simple fact that we don't ever seem to be completely content with the idea of being with ONE person, at least when you're in your sexual prime (18-30 or so). We want variety, that's the way it is, its just a matter of if you're gunna be strong enough to fight the temptations.
2006-07-07 18:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jordan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being attracted to another while in a relationship is not the issue.
it's acting on the attraction.
people are going to look, and daydream. and just because you're looking doesn't mean you should start touching too. And to infer that it is impossible to look and not touch is to infer that you have NO SELF CONTROL. I don't think you want to say such things about yourself.
2006-07-07 18:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called temptation, lust which is sin. You can turn away from it if you choose, if you don't you will be sucked in and then you have opened the box of consequences. You have free will, but you can not stop consequences. If you do good things, you reap good. If you do bad things, you reap bad. Nothing you can do to change that.
2006-07-07 18:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So that you can be happy with what you have. It's not abnormal to look .. hell, I have a crush on a guy at work. My fiance knows about it, no big deal. But if I were to act on it, he'd kill me. Besides, I wouldn't want to. It just makes me realize that, yeah, other guys are cute ... but my fiance wants to be with me, loves me, takes care of me (when I'm sick, need a hug, etc), taught me how to cook ... why would I leave that?
2006-07-07 18:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Aussie Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you can appreciate what you have everyday. Things on the other side of the fence come with more problems and issues than the ones on the side you are standing on. Things look greener on the other side.....
2006-07-07 18:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Animal magnetism?Natural instinct for species survival in animals...but as humans,we are supposed to be smart enough to know when to draw the line..
2006-07-07 18:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by thealmightycookielady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋