from sweet nova
2006-07-07 18:35:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes you can. I am living proof. Met my wife on line. She was 12 thousand miles away. We talked on line, via letters, and eventually on the phone. We talked at first about our history's,family's, traditions,and what we were looking for. We were both previously married, and had dated plenty in the interim. About 4 months into our relationship, we both started to have deeper feelings, at the same time We thought that we were falling in love, and we had an instant trust. However we both knew that we could not be sure until we met. Five moths after our first email, I was stepping off a plane in Odessa, Ukraine. One year and three days after our first email, she was stepping off a plane in New York, with her cat i may add, and into my arms. We flew to California where we lie today, more in love than ever. It does happen. .
2006-07-07 18:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by stevensings20032001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question: Are you really in love, or do you just want to be in love? Remember, trust can be a difficult issue between people who've known each other a while, never mind those who've never met. A person would be irresponsible to themselves to assume that a person is who they say they are, and that goes for live meetings as well as long distance communications.
In other words, If you think you might be interested in someone you haven't met personally, get all the facts and make an informed and intelligent decision - don't rush into anything. The consequences can be horrific.
2006-07-08 01:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is possible, but you will already have an idealistic image of the person that you want them to be. It doesn't usually turn out to be what you think in your mind it is going to be. No matter how much you talk to them and how many pictures you see, the person will still have mannerisms that may bug you. So, you can never be sure if it is real love until you spend some time with them.
2006-07-08 01:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by kb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did. We met in person after 3 months of internet chat. We moved in together 3 months after that. We've lived together now for ove 1 year and are very happy.
2006-07-08 02:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are commercials for match-making sites that make the idea of internet matches being somewhat of a good idea, though I will say this--
-the idea of being in love is not hard at all. The reality of being in love with another person is a little more work.
2006-07-08 01:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. sure you can..yes, they fall in love with heart and mind.. no matter what the person look like, the feeling inside is strong.
If it happens to someone close to you or your family, you will believe, but if it didn't happen to anyone who says NO, we can't blame them because few people has experienced this kind of love that last forever..
It is like the LOVE of GOD too, yet we don't see HIM but we believe in HIM.
2006-07-08 01:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but you can get infatuated with the idea of them. After you meet them and really get to know them you may actually fall in love. Had to start somewhere.
2006-07-08 01:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I definitely fell in love with my gf before I ever met her.
2006-07-08 01:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible. no one can say how, where, or why love falls the way it does. plus, we have our own definitions of love which we learned through our own life's experiences. until we find out that real love from God. then u know u can.
2006-07-08 01:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by SJ DUB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your definition of love...
In my opinion, no. I agree with the person above, you can be infatuated.
2006-07-08 01:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by scridzfuzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋