2006-07-07 18:25:24 · 18 answers · asked by chigaimasu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did. I don't recommend it!
2006-07-07 18:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
No, because I am a man and I can't marry another man. BUT...I could marry a woman not on the same intellectual plain. A relationship is what it is...no one person is all things to another person, but you find someone that you love and cherish and have common life goals with...that's more of the key. You divide up home responsibilities based on each other's unique capabilities. Could you marry a man who wasn't on the same athletic plain? emotional plain? housework plain? :-)
2006-07-08 01:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on if you can handle dealing with the conversations you both have. I honestly think it's got more to do with what is inside your heart. Ask yourself this, do you think you will crave more after a few years? do you think you will get bored because of the lack of communication on the same level? I think you will have to choose the good and the bad of this relationship and if you think you can deal with that forever, then he may be the one. On the other hand, does he feel intimidated by how intelligent you might be? He may not be as communicative as you on your level but probably has about the same interests ... people show their traits in different ways. I of course would not judge someone above or below me, I would look at them as an equal and not look for faults.
2006-07-08 01:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on other factors in your relationship. Do you share many common interests? If the gap in your intellectual levels is quite large it could be a problem. If it isn't that large and you enjoy your time together and share interests, it may not be a problem. If the difference in your intellect bothers you a lot that may be a sign. You could always try to introduce him to new things and maybe it would spark interest and he would expand his horizons.
2006-07-08 01:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am currently dating a guy thats just like that and its actually turning out to be a real hardship because when i answer a question intellectually or put in my intellectual opinion he always seems to think that im just trying to prove that im better than him....its driving crazy so NO i couldnt marry a man on a different IQ plane....
2006-07-08 01:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by socalsonja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question...I like this one.
I think...it depends on how far the levels are from each other. I consider myself kind of a smart girl, and I have to be able to discuss things that go on in my head with my spouse. If he doesn't know what I'm talking about...it would be frustrating and we would probably grow to have less and less in common. I also wouldn't like to be with a man who is overly smart, especially if he likes to show off his intelligence level aaaaall the time! It's best to be somewhat similar in that respect.
I like the way my fiance and I have it...I'm smart when it comes to literature, science and history - while he's got me on math, computers and pop culture...together, we make a genius ;)
2006-07-08 01:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by chi bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all relative, what if she/he is hot? i am sure you wouldn't care about her/his iq. what if the person is not school educated but is smart? some people are educated and still dumb. some succesful people who own businesses, or have special talents have not got a degree yet they do great. i am a man and at least me I don't totally go for the iq, you have to consider the other person personality, morals, etc and of course the chemistry and then hope she is not a genius but has some decent education, and finally is she has the boots and hoots then I am all oops for it.
2006-07-08 02:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hed have to be reallllllllllllly good in bed! no just kidding, yeah just as long as he is supportiove, and makes an attempt to understand me. I juct dont like people who are really sdumb and make ignorant comments, knwo they are wrong and are proud of it. and if hes open to learning, but if not ok. depends on the guy really.
2006-07-08 01:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If there is too much of a gap you might not have anything to talk about.
2006-07-08 01:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is on a higher plain then yes, a lower plain then no.
2006-07-08 01:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure exactly what you mean, but if your saying he is kind of dumb, no probably not. What would we talk about?
2006-07-08 01:27:29 · answer #11 · answered by qtee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋