my husbands ex wife and i have always gotten along famously being able to hang out and even socialize together she had a bad break up and ended up moving in here now her ex and her have mended the relationship and are now both living here but not contributing financially or otherwise i dont want to be rude and cause a fight but they dont seem to be working on getting out of our home i really just want a polite way to get them to see that they need to move on and out of our home and into their own. just don't know how to word it...PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-07-07 18:03:00 · 10 answers · asked by Ewok 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What the hell were you thinking, first of all that should have never happened like that I hope your husband did not ask you to because if he did then he is wrong and he needs a reality check but if he didn't then it's one thing to be a friend but it is another thing to be crazy, damn a fight get her and her deadbeat boyfriend out,RIGHT NOW you and your husband do not work so you can take care of them and you both deserve your house back you have your husband what do you need her for..... and how do you know she is not trying to make a play for him herself next thing you know you will be hearing " It just happened" when that probably was the plan all along.
2006-07-07 18:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by blaquegirlmahoghany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult but you have to do it.
Tell them they need to move out by lets say 10 days? If you are too nice they might procratinate and the day may never come. After 10 days, put all their belongings outside your house. They will get the drift.
2006-07-08 03:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you guys didn't all ahve so many exs it would be alot less confusing to figure the situation out.
To get them out you can flat out lie. You're getting ready to remodel and need all the free space you can get. Or you can just be straight up and tell them its time the got the **** out and paid their own way for a roof.
2006-07-08 04:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First your crazy, I would never let my husbands ex live in my house, let alone her new man. Hell no.
Kick them out, what do you care if your not friends for? Is she that close to you and if she is they how are you married to her ex?
2006-07-08 01:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Carmalee F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you let her move in in the first place! Why did he move in too? Didn't they have their own place before they moved in? I agree with the other answer...have your husband tell them to leave!!!
2006-07-08 01:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by delfin716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh ick....wouldn't of ever gotten myself in that predicament to begin with....the drama and fights would of started at the first mention of her even moving in......
2006-07-08 14:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. You may want to call Jerry Springer he probably would pay you for the rights to tape this.
2006-07-08 01:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. You aren't joking either are you? Let your HUBBY tell them to move on!! The sooner the better.
2006-07-08 01:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first marrage broke up cause of that same problem, get rid of them now,
2006-07-13 12:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell them straight up..jus be honest with them
2006-07-08 01:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by missdynamite_518 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋