I have always felt a sense of love. But the thing is. i can't seem to settle with the fact of marrying a women. Its not that im not commited. I mean i like sex, like every other man and im not gay. I just don't wanna be married you know. I always wanted kids though. LIKE ALWAYS!. Is there a chance i can adopt a little girl without getting a wife? Look im going to be plain out honest. I have sponsored countless kids and helped in children hospitals and achieved awards. Im not a sicko if you know what im saying. Regardless of that will people be jaded to the fact that they won't let me adopt even if i support her in everyway possible. FOod CLothing Education, spend time of weekands and during the week im home before she is from school. I JUST DON"T WANNA GET ******* MARRIED FOR GOD SAKES.. Maybe its i don't trust people enough but then again why should i?
Whatever the case i wanna adopt would i be able too.
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2006-07-07 18:01:13 · 6 answers · asked by FadingMemory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Of course you can. But you better get started, get on a waiting list. It took us 8 years on a list before they even did our home study, but then got a placement right away. This was with our state's social services. Private adoption is faster but very expensive.
Regardless of what pro-choice folks say, there are many more people who want to adopt a baby, than there are babies.. And if it is a baby you want instead of an older child, there is nothing wrong with that. Get on the list.
Happy parenting!
2006-07-07 18:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am going to be honest with you. I think that it is going to be hard for you to adopt. Just because of the fact that you are a single man. I think that you should look into being a big brother to someone. Like those clubs. Why don't you try to have your own child. Some women want to have children but don't want to get married.
2006-07-08 01:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by LouMomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not a little boy?
If you cannot commit to a relationship with an adult, how do you know you can commit to a relationship with a child? If you are so untrusting how can you teach a child to be trusting? Would it be fair to deprive a little girl of a mother?
2006-07-08 01:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can
and yes you should!
My uncle adopted at age 50.... I don't know what the laws or restrictions are if you live the US, but in Canada as long as you find a good agency, then you're set!
Do it!
2006-07-08 01:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not
2006-07-08 01:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-07-08 01:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Taila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋