I don't know how to dance, and I feel stupid doing so. Is that a problem?

Question

when I go to parties I stand in a dark corner with my arms crossed.

Answer 1

Don't feel bad. Lots of guys have this problem. But it's really easy to solve! Here's how!
1. Get any girl who you know, and who can "dance" (most girls can) to help you
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2. Your home, or her home, or anywhere the 2 of you can be alone.
3. Have a music source there, and let her show you how to move your feet, your legs, your butt, and you upper body to the music. Don't even worry about "dance steps", and all that formal, boring stuff. Just use your creativity, and move your body to the rythym of the music.
4. Keep doing that with her for about 2 hours (taking a rest now and then). By that time you are going lo like the feel of it, and you will realize that your whole body is moving sooooo good to the music. In fact, by then you won't want to stop, and will want to keep doing this some more.
5. So it wouldn't hurt to do it again the next day.
6. Now you are ready to go to a "dance". Your confidence will be high, and you will feel very comfortable with your body and its movements.
7. You will never, ever stand in the corner with your arms folded again.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Don't feel stupid....
But also, don't stand in a corner with your arms crossed unless you're really mad....

Feel the music and go with it....

And the next time you are standing in a dark corner with your arms crossed, look at all the other people dancing... They look like fools too!

Answer 3

No one should feel stupid for being unable to do one thing or another. We're all capable of doing certain things but not other things. If you really hope to dance with a lady, take some dancing lessons. Who knows, you never know what potential your legs got!!! Good luck!

Answer 4

Dont feel bad...I dont know how either..although when I'm drunk I dont seem to care and try to anyway...usually the people I'm with are drunk too so if I look stupid they won't know :)

Try taking a dance class....Our YMCA offers them...check that out so you can get outa the corner and enjoy yourself. Good Luck!!

nobody puts baby in the corner lol

Answer 5

So if I'm one of the prettiest you've ever seen than how can that be cause I don't have blue eyes. Yes you are attractive and you can score a white chick. Anyways if ya can't tell I do my research. So where did you see my pic? I noticed you didn't answer any of my queations and you and I didn't answer any of the same ones so where'd ya see it at? Where do you live?
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How old are you?
Just get drunk enough and you'll dance. I can teach you!

Answer 6

I never felt I was a good dancer, but I LOVE DANCE!-All different kinds of dance. I think its fine to just be an observer in public and to watch people dance. - I dance when I'm alone or with my dogs, cuz they don't care if I look stupid!

Answer 7

Your personal feelings are never stupid.
I learned to dance by just doing what felt right and by watching others then taking there moves and using them myself. It took time to feel comfortable on the dance floor.
I learned to say "I don't care what others think I am doing this for me". Now I have been complimented by many on the way I move. Just do what feels right to you and have fun..

Answer 8

nowadays, you really don't need to know how to dance all you have to do is keep up with the rhythm by bobbing your head.

Answer 9

I don't know how to dance either but,,,,I can hold my wife by her butt,and sway back and forth to slow music!!!!

Answer 10

Have someone teach you .